Keep yourself busy..take up a new hobbie. Its okay to cry your heart out..till u cannot cry anymore. These things take time...be strong and just think about that bad stuff he's done. Dont phone him or sms...coz it will just make things worse. In time you will realise that he wasnt worth it and that you deserve alot better. Just have that will power and go out with friends. Its easier than you think...its all in the mind.
Hope everything goes well..
peace:p
xmelx
2007-11-05 20:56:14
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answered by WHATEVER!!` 2
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The easiest way? Man is still trying to scratch the surface on that one.
But thank goodness it’s not as hard as it seems. I have learnt that anything that includes emotions is best healed by time. I was in a relationship sometime back that was so right, that it could easily have been from a fairy tale script. Alas cupid must have been intoxicated, and took out the wrong arrow. And the unfortunate part is you will always be thinking about the dude or the girl fantasizing how it could have gone on and on or if you could have done much more to keep things going. That’s the part thats sad sometimes, when you did nothing wrong but you still feel as if you did wrong. When we fall for someone we create what we call soul ties. Even if you separate you will always be tied to them emotionally. Its even more evident in females cause they are more emotional
So that’s the first thing see the big picture, if you really know how something works you can tame it. after sometime i gurantee you, you will be laughing about it. its called maturing with time. With my ex I used to think about her every time. Stop that! It only just makes you feel even worse. Next get all the stuff that easily makes you think about him out of your immediate sight. Those easily make you think about the wonderful times you had together or the bad ones. OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND, it works! So that includes, yes that teddy he bought you for Valentines on the dressing table. Always be positive look at the big picture you are young and beautiful there is still much better things to come. Positive thinking will help you when you really feel down and desperately want to do the wrong thing that is want to call him. Go on you can do it
2007-11-06 05:24:15
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answered by ALLAN M 1
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Good friends! If you are old enough get some friends and go out to some clubs. If you are not old enough, just get out and go some where fun. Meet new people! Dont jump right into another relationship. You don't want to bring your newly acquired baggage into your next relationship, you could ruin it from the start.
You will never totally forget about a guy, especially if it was a serious relationship, but you can move on. Sure you can burn things, break things and get rid of everything he bought you, but you can't really get rid of memories. The best thing to do, is to go out and have fun! Surround yourself with good people. Work on doing things that make you happy and soon the "ex" won't be an issue.
2007-11-06 05:02:47
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answered by Chalise 2
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It was really tough for me to get over my ex. Couldn't stop thinking about her. I found that it really helped to go to new places. Places that we hadn't been together. Find a new coffee shop, pub, bookstore, or whatever... to hang out in.
Also, you need to fill your mind with new stuff and events. Join a club for whatever you have interests in. Anything not to let your mind wander back to him
Think of him as a bad habit that you have to quit. Find your Ex-boyfriends Anonymous shelter/replacement and stick with it. You can do it!!
2007-11-06 05:02:42
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answered by sdsrfbum69 3
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Call me, I promise you'll forget his name within 10 minutes!! LOL
2007-11-06 04:50:30
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answered by kuntryguyy 4
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Burn all pictures, Gifts and other things that he gave you and then go get yourself another boyfriend!
2007-11-06 04:50:16
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answered by mskylers 3
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Get a new one
2007-11-06 04:49:55
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answered by charge 5
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By dating another guy you like.
2007-11-06 04:57:09
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answered by Sunset 7
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Take a better one and choose it carefully
2007-11-06 04:50:13
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answered by maussy 7
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THERE IS NO EASY WAY, THE ONLY WAY IS TO TAKE IT A DAY AT A TIME.
2007-11-06 04:52:26
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answered by angel 3
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