Okay so...After my last question all the replies basically said that my boyfriend was dumping me...How do i get him back i really love him!...He said he wanted a break..but i mean that is just an excuse to dump me when they say "we can still be friends"...Its getting me really down && i just want him back...
If he is being serious about having a break for 2 weeks i don't think i can wait ...but i know it is just a way of dumping me!!!
HOW DO I GET HIM BACK???????
Please help x
2007-11-05 20:45:44 · 16 answers · asked by no name 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him time and if he doesent come back to you then obviously he doesent love you. Dont be the one to try so hard cause that might push them away even further. Us guys tend to get anoyed and just want some space to think things over. Good luck and if it doesetn work out im single at the moment hah
2007-11-05 20:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by chris.randone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre assuming an awful lot based on answers you say you were given, the best person to ask is not anyone on here but the man himself Hun.
If he is serious about having a two week break then you need to allow him that, and as hard as it is you have to wait, or all you will do is drive him away, if he is genuine then he will be working out what ever it is he has to and will be back. He could well be thinking about ending it and that's why he is taking 2 weeks so be prepared for that also,look at it this way, if that is the reason he is at least giving it some serious thought and not just dumping you without even caring to think it through. Will he come back, maybe yes maybe no Hun, but you cant force someone to love you or be with you if they don't want to or their heart is not in it as in the long run it will drive you apart anyway, my advice, give him the two weeks if he ends it, talk to him rationally about what made him come to his decision and see if it can be worked out with changes and effort made by both of you, if not then Hun don't beg youre better than that OK, lick your wounds and learn from it and try to move on.Mr right is out there.
2007-11-06 04:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more you try getting him back, the farther you'll push him away. Give him space, if he still wants to get back together after two weeks then good for you, if not.....then you'll just have to move on. It's part of life, do you really want to go out with someone who doesn't feel the same way? It will hurt, but if you try to get him back now, he might resent you later. Life is not always like a romantic movie, unfortunately...
2007-11-06 04:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Moonfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on or you will just be building yourself a life of misery. You have the whole world of young good looking guys out there to choose from---yes to choose from. Get confident, put on a smile and don't look for sympathy--your not alone. Remember: "you follow a garbage truck you will pick up garbage--you follow a diamond merchant you wil pick up diamonds." Living well is the best revenge--good luck
2007-11-06 05:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the tone of your message it sounds like you are quite young and this is possibly your first love. If you are on a break let him go, otherwise every time he gets bored he will leave you and then come back. This not good for you and it is time to let him go.
2007-11-06 05:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never wish for him again cz if that ******** loved u, he would have never dumped u. the real thing is real love never has any ending, so that guy don't want u anymore. u deserve better. so its better for u also to move on. don't be silly cz even if u get him back , who knows he might dump you again. so let that ******** go and you also make a new start. look around yourself you might find someone who loves you more than anyone. so its better for you also to move on when that ******** had moved on.
2007-11-06 05:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by jack r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone love you, no matter how hard you try. Let him have his break and leave him alone. If he really loves you he will come back to you. You ringing him and pressurising him is only going to make things worse.
If he doesn't come back, then unfortunately you just have to accept that he wasn't right for you and move on.
2007-11-06 05:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sry to say but there isnt a way
u deserve better ........a lot of people tell me tht too and i get mad but if the guy doesnt want u than u need to learnt toexpect it .........i know its gona hurt and i no how being down feels thts life hun and u need to deal with it
u can remind him again tht u love him but comeon think about he should already no.........no one ever forgets these three workds
i love u
i hope u can find a way to talk to him
i hope everthing goes good for u
sorry i couldnt help
good luck
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2007-11-06 04:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by ωєℓѕн 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get really dressed up go out with the girls where he hangs out with the lads treat him like a mate don't ignore him and flirt with other guys nicely don't throw yourself at them. show him ya can have who ya want and he a fool be letting ya go. don't do it with his mates tho that just insult him and he think ya were just easy get with. Main thing is keep smile on and be yourself try not make out it an act get him back
2007-11-06 05:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by Maria L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋