Guys: What is TOO forward for a girl ?

Question

What is just the right amount of initiating from the girl like flirting/ compliments/ any physical contact without being too forward? When is a girl being too forward or pushy?

What are some good ways for her too initiate contact/ closeness without it being too much?

Thanks

Answer 1

Honestly, in my mind there is no such thing as too forward. Women can be hard to get sometimes so if thy just come out & tell you whats going on in their head, its a pleasant suprise for me.

Answer 2

If a guy is interested, then he probably won't mind if your a little forward. But you are probably better off not being too desperate, because this will give the guy too much of an ego. Simply touch his arm or hand, do that hair flip thing girls do and pay him a little extra attention. I don't think you really need to give him alot of compliments. Sometimes, I don't mind if a girl is very forward, but for some guys it can be a turnoff. Bottom line, if the girl is really hot, it probably doesn't matter what you do.

Answer 3

Take it from a flirting expert, the key here is to keep it all light-hearted and FUN! Guys enjoy being on the receiving end of a bit of girly attention so feel free to flash your smile, share a laugh & nicely compliment them on their talents or appearance.

However, there is a fine line between being a superflirt and being a superskank. You want to be the former, not the latter! The rules here are simple:

1) Guys with girlfriends/fiancees/wives are off limits. Everytime. No excuses.

2) No lecherous behavior. It is OK to touch him on the arm as you talk to him, but it is not OK to grab him on the ***. Unless you are an item, don't go there.

3) Specific, original compliments tend to work best e.g. 'You have great taste in clothes. Where did you get your sweater?' instead of 'Wow, you're so tall!'. Never make sexual compliments unless you know the person won't get offended or embarrassed. Better still, leave them for the bedroom.

4) Don't whinge about your ex, complain about your job or mention you've just come out of rehab. Guys don't want to hear negative vibes off someone they have just met. Be the girl who talks about upcoming events such as concerts and Thanksgiving or how much fun you had last summer on your trip to Hawaii. Without boring him, you've provided him with a snippit of your life and something to ask you about should he wish to keep the conversation going. Guys appreciate this as it makes their job much easier!

5) Dress appropriately. Subtle is sexy, vulgar is not. Be the girl who is getting attention for wearing the amazing dress with lacy detail, not the one with her titties bulging out of her two sizes too small top.

I hope this helps :-) Good luck.

Answer 4

It totally depends on the guy. Most guys don't have a limit of how forward a girl can be, actually most guys want that from a girl. You really have to know the guy before you initiate. Try some things out on him, and keep giving a little more until he gets uneasy.

Answer 5

the lady making the 1st circulate makes issues a bargain easier, its by no potential common making the 1st circulate, yet somebody's gotta do it, so the guy has gotta be the guy and decide for the gold earlier the gold gets taken by potential of somebody else approximately that guy, while your hugging, hang to him, say how plenty he smells stable, and scent around his neck, then make your way slowly to the lips to attempt the kiss

Answer 6

I'm not a guy, but I can answerrr.
Don't be too pushy, don't make her feel uncomfortable.
And, if she says stop, then stop.
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Answer 7

for me there is no such thing as too forward ---- have fun

Answer 8

if they come sit on my lap i'm already on the defensive.

Answer 9

if she feels uncomfortable then stop