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my story is kinda hard to explain but i'll tell you the basics,i have three kids,i was put out of my husbands house along with my kids because of some other affair he was having,and when i got mad he called the police to tell me to leave,so i had to leave with my 3 kids,no family to go to,i went to a friends to stay but someone called dhs because the house was too small for so many people and the kids were sleeping on the floor,i told dhs it was only temporary but they said i needed to find a better place for my kids,so i called a friend that i knew could fit us and had plenty of room in her house,but she said she could only take the kids,so i took the kids over there and my friend gave some papers to sighn so that it would be legal,and i did, i just wanted my kids in a safe place,until i got back on my feet.
now that i can,im trying to get them back and i have all this legal stuff to do,its not like they were taken from me,or is there a difference?
2007-11-05 18:05:35 · 7 answers · asked by sunflower1986am 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need and Attorney.
Call around and see if one will give you a free consultation.
You need to go after your husband he cannot kick you out of your own home like that and that's the law.
What he did to you is against the law because the two of you are married therefore that house is as much yours as it is his.
Also that woman friend of yours cannot keep your children.
Those are your children and no matter what kinds of papers you signed I highly doubt she can legally keep them from you.
Get yourself a lawyer and sue your husband and get your kids back.
This has got to be the most awful thing for your kids to have to go through.
2007-11-05 18:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Adelaide B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you sign papers just so your children could have a place to stay without understanding what it was your were signing? You could have signed away your rights. Another thing, your husband cannot kick you out like that with children when this is your established place of residence. There are laws to protect adults and children from this happening, and I cannot think of a judge in their right mind who would order it to happen. There would have had to be a court order for this to take place. I cannot imagine any police officer coming and forcing you and your children leave your place of residence with no place to go without a court order. None of this makes any sense. You need to get a family law attorney. Perhaps legal aid could help you. I wish you the best, as I know this has been a nightmare for you.
2007-11-05 18:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope there isnt a custody battele ahead for u dear.. BUT sounds like!! Sorry to say, btut u know ur firend better than I do.. Is she likely to get nasty and try to keep ur kiddies? May I suggest that u try to get legal advice from Legal Aid or a private solicitor (if u can afford it...I know thats not always possible but try ur best hunny.
I dont like the sound of her not being able to take all four of u..why not? In a bind no one minds sleepin g on a floor as long as the family is kept together
Good luck with whatever happens. I shall add u to our prayers tonight
CHEERS
2007-11-05 18:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mona Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your life is stable enough you can get your kids back. You can ask the dhs to do the legal stuff for you. They know it better.
2007-11-05 18:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Albert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First establish a good home for your family then go to DSHS and tell them you're ready to get them back. Your friend should be willing to give them back if you have a stable place for your family.
Good luck.
2007-11-05 18:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by shipwreck 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depents on what was on that paper you signed, it seems that those things we care the most for are easy to lose and hard to regain. What type of "friend" is this that has your children. Are you truly back on your feet.God bless I hope for the best for you and your children.
2007-11-05 18:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a legal counselor or google family therapy so they can point out the best way to get them back with their support. If you go there fighting for your rights .. it could back fire to you. So just take things easy, go to the social worker, very well dressed and nice ...explain to her with a bible at hand that you deserve the right to get your kids and life back and you are ready ready ready to do it ... with conviction god damn it !
2007-11-05 18:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by Bono 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋