Hey girlz out there in yahoo !! I have a serious question to ask. Do u beleive in virginity befor marriage. If you had sex earlier with your boy friend's earlier do you think that itz a kind of cheating to you future husband's? Do respond.....
2007-11-05 17:48:07 · 34 answers · asked by farsad n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes! I believe that sex is for marriage only. So I'm saving myself for my husband. =)
2007-11-05 17:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I most definitely do believe in saving it for marriage! When I was younger, I believed for strictly religious reasons-now I believe for multiple reasons. Yes, God intends it to be the best gift you can give your husband or wife-I heard an analogy about how we as humans are like pieces of tape and every time that we have sex before we meet our husband/wife, it's almost like we pick up stuff and then when we do, the stickiness is gone, some of the attraction can be gone. But personally, I know that I will not be emotionally ready until I have the wedding ring on my finger and I've told everyone off for DARING to think I'd change my name. To put it in perspective, my first kiss was with a guy who was just a friend. Yes, I wanted it but was there any electricity behind it? No. It was done for the sake of doing it, not because of love/all that kind of stuff. If I had waited, it could have been something memorable in a good way. With that experience in mind, I know that I could only give my virginity to my future husband, when we have just made the ultimate commitment of love.
However, that is my perspective on it-just one of many. I know a lot of people who have had sex before they were married and they were fine, but I could never see myself not being a virgin on my wedding night.
2007-11-05 19:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Trista 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Virginity? I vaguely remember having that... looonnnggg ago. I miss it sometimes. It's so distant. So far away...
I personally don't believe in virginity before marriage. But I know girls who dont want to lose their virginity before marriage because they are sleeping with someone who may not end up as their future husband, and they don't want to sleep with the possible husband of a different girl.
2007-11-05 17:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by Cute little me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i had known more about the male brain i think i would have entered my marriage a virgin but husband did not care about my past as long as i did not have any kind of STD'S or virsus's. i guess as long as dont plan on returning to the former relationship. im not saying to go out and find a guy to have sex with just because. what im saying is think about your feelings for this person before you let something like that happen make sure that he is not tricking you or something like that. and if your family does not approve of your relationship with this guy especially if its the people you most care about. maybe you should ask this guy wait and later on in life you will not regret it. sorry did not answer your question.
NO. lol sorry got off track
2007-11-05 18:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by married & still inlove 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
definitely? No. not for many adult adult males (however there are some that have an entire "corruption of innocence" fetish, which isn't inevitably a foul factor yet isn't too common). the 1st time a girl (or every physique, for that remember) has intercourse is, nicely, awkward. this is sloppy and painful and neither occasion enjoys it that plenty except there's a deep emotional connection. that may not to declare this is a turn-off, innovations you, in basic terms that maximum adult adult males do not hear virgin and in the present day opt to alter that.
2016-10-01 23:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by pepin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i do believe in virginity and waiting to have sex until marriage :) i'm a christian and in the Bible God says that having sex before marriage is down-right wrong and i truly believe that. i mean for me i kinda look at my virginity as a gift to my future husband. and wat person wants an already opened, used gift? also, for me, whenever i would have sex w/ my husband i would always think of all the others that i had been w/ and wasted my time w/ and it would just ruin it for me. so yeah in a huge way i do think that it's cheating on your future husband/wife and giving away something that will someday be theirs.
2007-11-05 18:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by lulu 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
THe only its cheating is if you contract something and pass it on to the husband and not tell him or get pregnant before being ready to have a family.
2007-11-05 18:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by PeguinBackPacker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating on your future husband? R U serious? My only question is.... Who or what religious NUT brainwashed you? Any man who feels cheated by a woman's past relationships is either A) a religious retard or B) someone with an inferior pecker. Pick one...
2007-11-05 17:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by Haywood Jablomee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I waited until I was married to have sex. I was a virgin until I got married. I am glad that I waited. I think that my virginity is the best gift I could give my husband.
2007-11-05 17:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by boonslilsis 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i do believe in virginity but really it all depends on the person,
its def not cheating on your future husband.
if you have sex before your married with someone you truly did love and cared for then its all good but on mistake or jsut for pleasure then you can call that cheatin on your futurre husband and also then your a ****!
2007-11-05 17:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by babiangelllove 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋