OK what would you think if a guy brought his girlfriend to stay over at his parents' house???is that an important step and he doesn't realise or it means nothing?
and please state your age and sex so that I can have my statistics! thank you!
2007-11-05 17:37:27 · 14 answers · asked by ele 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Male, 62. I don't approve unless he has already given her a ring with proposal.
I know that in some families they allow this, and that the boy winds up marrying the girl. But if he has not proposed and he has not given her the ring which should be worth at least a thousand or two, then forget it. I'm not going for it. Tell the girl not to be a fool.
Sorry, no offense to anyone. But I know what I'm talking about concerning this issue.
I Cr 13;8a
2007-11-05 18:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the situation.Sometimes as i also see in Greece, there are foreign persons who live here, and they havent yet settled down a situation, it means that the girl till they get married lives in the house of the man with his parents in order to avoid also the rent anad the other expenses..
In this case there is no privacy in the life of the couple, and i dont think that the greek society still is so liberated in order to accept it.
It depends also on the purpose they have if they are going to get married soon, or if it is just an adventure
2007-11-05 21:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Leonarda 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It means that his parents are way too permissive. Even the girl's parents are so. If they stay together but away from parents, it is quite normal and I would accept it. But, being in parents' house, living all together, is improper.
It is not that I am mother in late 40s. My 25yo. daughter after thinking on the same matter, has reached to htis conclusion too. Parents should always keep a distance from such decisions of their children. If they want to live together with someone, let them rent a house and do as they wish. Living with parents is wrong and first of all is a mistake of the parents accepting such a situation.
2007-11-05 17:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a nice thing to do.
But of course it depends on the relationships in the family,too. Some guys have a very open realtionship with their families and they don't consider bringing their girlfriends home a big deal and some guys are more reserved let's say, and for them it is a big deal to bring their girlfriends meet the family or stay at home.
So according to me it is better to understand what type of guy and family we are talking about.
And then it is easier to make a comment.
In my opinion in all the cases it is a nice behavior.
Female 30
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2007-11-05 18:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he stayed in the same room as her, I would think it means nothing as this is disrespectful to both the parents and the girl. But then some women don't have enough self-respect to not fool around prior to marriage.
If he stayed in a different room and doesn't usually bring girls home, it might mean he likes her. But mostly you are reading too much in to life.
2007-11-05 17:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by James Watkin 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
That depends, are the parent home while she is there? If so I think that he must think a lot about her and his parents approve of her. If parents are not there, he does not repect her as much as he should. My age is 32 and am female. Good luck =p
2007-11-05 17:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by 2cute4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In terms of how he sees their relationship, yes it's an important step. Meeting the parents is a big deal.
I think it's interesting that some people assume that sex is involved. I don't see that in your question.
I'm a 37 year old male from the US (you didn't ask, but just in case it matters. :)
2007-11-05 20:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by The Babe is Armed! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well im a female and im 19 but i think it would be awkward for me at least to go and stay with my boyfriend at his parents house only because i think i would be intruding and i dont think they would agree on my sleeping over or whatever. i dont know the type of relationship your guy has with his parents but im pretty sure that not alot of parents approve.
2007-11-05 17:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm.Id say the guy really likes the girl to take her to the parents home.He must be serious about her.Am 20 F
2007-11-05 17:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by damyna 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
once i wanted to bring a girl in my house, she was foreigner i was 30 my mother said no, you are too young to get married.Then she came, but after that she left,i dont know why everyone leaves me..i am 40
2007-11-05 21:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by Paco 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋