When I was 7 my sister (8 years older then I) brought me into her bedroom, where she stripped herself neked, and liad on her bed.She told me to lay down on top of her;then she promptly took my own hand in hers, and made me rub here down...
The she made me suck on her nipples, while she started to groan...
Ugh..this is all so upsetting, but this is abuse ...is it not?
I've been raped repeatively from the time I was 3 by many different people.But..this is my sister.It happened in my own house, with family members within the building!
Is this abuse?
Oh should I just ride it off and "grow up"
Serious answers would be appreciated.
But, because of this, and other things similar, I screwed up my life.
2007-11-05 12:57:21 · 9 answers · asked by Elizabeth C 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Firstly, it is important not to blame your sister. ANy child who behaves this way has clearly been abused as well. This is definitely abuse and it is important to seek help because that kinda thing can really stay with you. No, growing up is not the answer. There are support services available for both you and your sister and you can get through this. You might be able to get funding for counselling on the grounds that you were abused, I know you can in New Zealand. Please do reach out. It's not "telling tales" or whatever, this is a serious problem and you are right to look for answers.
Good luck!!
2007-11-05 13:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This does sound like abuse. I know that it is normal for siblings to sometimes "experiment" a little bit with touching but what your sister is doing sounds a lot more serious. I think talking to a psychiatrist or dr would be a good thing for you, especially since you've also mentioned that other people have raped you. This is not right, my heart goes to you, I too have been raped before, a couple of times. You say that you screwed up your life, I can sympathize with you, I went down a bad path too when I had lots of crap happen to me, it would be really good if you could talk with a specialist, this is something serious that has to stop and you need to talk with someone about so that your life is not messed for the rest of it. Please get help and make sure that this stops, it is not right.
2007-11-05 21:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by Nursy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It was abuse, yes. Think about seeing a therapist to talk these things out. They have a way of screwing up your life for a long time to come if you don't do some kind of therapy.
2007-11-05 21:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it was abuse.
Don't be ashamed. YOU have nothing to be ashamed of. It sounds like your sister DOES.
I would seriously suggest (and please, take it from someone who's been there) that you get therapy for it.
But if that can't be done (I understand, therapy is expensive), just remember that what happened to you was not your fault. And you CAN rise above it.
2007-11-05 21:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by The_Cricket: Thinking Pink! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i kinda went thru this ... notwith my sister but with my nehibor girl....i was relaly depressed for a couple of years...i didn/t want to get any1 in trouble....i didn't tell ne one.. i was in the 5th grade i shoulda have... i thought i w was a bad child......i never told my parents or hers...i just kidna got over it....thats pry not the right way to do things.
2007-11-05 21:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by murr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well first of all iam really sorry and what you should do is report it abusing other people is very serious.
2007-11-05 21:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is definately abuse.
2007-11-05 21:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is definatly sexual abuse.
2007-11-07 16:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw i'm so sorry but sounds like it...:[
2007-11-05 21:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by My Lovee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋