I am dating a girl who is also a virgin. What should I expect when we make love for the first time?
I'm asking specifically from a guy's point of view but I guess I'd be interested in what the ladies have to say also.
Thanks.
2007-11-05 12:30:12 · 4 answers · asked by jim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's going to be awkward. You will have to have sex many times before you get good at it. She will be pretty uncomfortable, and maybe even in some pain at first, so take it slow. Educate yourselves on various birth control methods. Most importantly, don't pressure her, make sure she is really ready for it. The last thing you want is for her to regret it the next day (I would hope).
2007-11-05 12:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by jellybeanchick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you from a girl's perspective that it will be very emotional for her. It is all I thought about for like 3 days after it happened. I wouldn't do it unless you are sure you are ready and have been together for awhile. It will be awkward, but everyone's first time is. Be respectful and it will be nice for both of you.
2007-11-05 20:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by ajcrouch8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i did also. The First Intercourse is very important cuz u cant never get it back. ask if this is what you and her wants. Wait if one of you want to. that beuilds up trust but becareful what you think abput sex. sex is adult thing that needs alot of reponsiblilty. if you do have safe sex but anyways making love is better then such thing called sex lol. when the first intercourse happends both of you has know that this is not for fun but to increase you and the other persons relationship and trsuting and willing to give your body to someone.
member have safe sex. protection
2007-11-05 20:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by dkalltheway87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll say now don't expect it to be anything spectacular. It may actually be uncomfortable for both of you. Don't expect for either of you to climax either.
2007-11-05 20:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋