It seems like I am never single. Even when I try to be, I find someone else I'm interested in, and honestly, a lot of guys are interested too. So I end up dating a lot of people. In the past 4 years, I have been involved in one way or another with 8 different people, one of them I dated twice. My friends always act bitter about it and don't believe I can be single even though i'm perfectly capable. Am I doing something wrong or is it okay to date a lot?
2007-11-05 12:01:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whats wrong with dating? I thought the goal in life was to find a partner who you love blah blah blah, not to be single on purpose.
Maybe you should only go for someone who you really like; perhaps you are having a lot of relationships for a reason other than wanting to commit?
Forget what your friends think, but it can get annoying watching a person not able to make their mind up. Perhaps you come across as fickle or something to them?
2007-11-05 12:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my only worry is this.
The true you is the person who is alone with her thoughts.
The untrue you is the person who conforms to who everyone else wants you to be. I'm concerned with your statement because as you go thru several failed relationships (because if they were successful..you'd be in just one) I'm afraid you're going to lose track of who you really are?
Give "You" a break sometime and get to know without interruption of someone else's needs.
2007-11-05 20:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is okay,but dont get to caught up in the realsthion ship only if youthink it is cerious but just u can keep on dating because u never now when that guy is gunna come along walking dow the aisle with you.
2007-11-05 20:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Brittney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brava! Keep up the good work. You go and date as often as you like. At least you not marrying all this guys, right? Who cares what your friends say.
2007-11-05 20:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by TryItOnce 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, sure its ok to date a lot, it may seem a bit sudden to your friends but if they don't support your decisions then they're not true friends are they?? you are doing nothing wrong, your just living life, you just haven't found the right guy for you.
2007-11-05 20:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by John 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with dating ... and who's to judge about your relationship? You're the one in it... you decided what is wrong or right about it... if you want to be in a relationship.. you be in one and if you want to be single... you be single..
don't let your friends tell you what lifestyle you should have
2007-11-05 20:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by chilledguy27 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe take some time off from guys you know coz it could be that you think you always need a guy but i dont think you're awful...it's not like it's your fault unless you cheated on them
hope i helpedâ¥
2007-11-05 20:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by ??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think its wrong that you date alot of people. its not a crime being interested in guys. they are probably jealous cuz you can get more guys then they can. its ok your probably young so uh live life wit no regrets....
2007-11-05 20:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by aprizzle10 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is okay to date a lot,
i mean keep looking until you are really happy.
just dont sleep around a lot..
and if you do, then be careful ha.
2007-11-05 20:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by miss lyss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't doing anything wrong so don't let your friends make you feel that way.
2007-11-05 20:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by WilmaF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋