im 15 years old and my mother still treats me like im 5!!!im turning 16 in april
i live in new jersey, and i wanna go to new york to see chris brown.but my mother told me that i cant go.I didnt do anything wrong, i think she just doesnt wanna accept the fact that im growing older.
i have more responsibilities, and i think i deserve more privileges!!what can tell her to change her mind??because she sees right through bullshit!
ohh and i wanna go on thursday, so you guys better give ideas fast...please and ty
2007-11-05 11:57:37 · 5 answers · asked by skittles689 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sit down with your mom and have a heart to heart talk with her. Let her know how you feel about how she makes you feel. Don't get upset or be accusing. Try to talk to her like an adult talking with another adult. She may see the difference. Let her know that you are more mature and that you want to be more responsible... not just have more responsibilities. If you can keep from getting upset with her, even if she still says "no" about the concert, then she will remember how you acted and hopefully will begin to treat you differently. If she does say "no", just accept it. She will see how mature you are about it and will begin to look at you differently. You may not understand her reasons for not letting you go, but I'm sure she has some that make her feel justified in saying "no". She could just be worried about your safety. That's just a mother's love. They will always have that for you even after you've grown and are on your own.
2007-11-05 12:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by randmthots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 15 year old sat me down and told me very firmly that he was old enough to be trusted. I thought about that for awhile. Then I let him do something he wanted to do, stipulating that he had to call me on his cell at a certain time to check in with me. He did. He came back safe and sound. He did not get killed. He did not get drunk. He did not get arrested. So now he gets to go out and spend the weekend with his friends every now and then. I think you just need to tell your mom to give you some trust and respect that you were raised right by her and that you are going to watch out for yourself.
2007-11-05 12:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 04:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by bolen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...I agree with your mom. You're too young to be going out of state by yourself (not with a parent or a chaperone). It's not about your maturity level or you being a young adult. It's about the fact that you're 15. You're too young.
2007-11-05 12:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to yur mom and ask why she doesnt want to let u go. then try explaining you reasoning and hopefully try to compromise.
2007-11-05 12:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋