Say you were addicted to drugs managed to bankrupt ur $1300 from pocket money building over the years or should i say month, then somehow that isnt enough you steal $20-40 out of ur mums wallet and it builds up to $1000 befor you think OK I THINK ITS TIME I STOP, and no she doesnt know its missing becuase she found out about it ounce ide had around $950 of it stealing of her everyday
Ok i just want a way to tell her maybe then she wont buy me a car or something and ill feel better about myself
yes i would pay it back but ive never had a job and i cant get a job
2007-11-05 11:51:29 · 32 answers · asked by LOl B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
this happend a year ago and i havnt touched drugs in ages so just shut up, how am i ganna do this
2007-11-05 12:03:15 · update #1
think about what happened and what it is you are sorry for doing. Write down your apology; this will help you organize your thoughts and calm your nerves. Practice what you plan to say until you feel comfortable with it. State clearly what it is you are sorry for doing. Acknowledge your actions without making excuses. Share your feelings about what happened - avoid blaming, exaggerating or saying empty words.
Listen to the other person's response without getting defensive.Offer to make amends if appropriate.
Move on. Once you've apologized, let it go. Think of an apology as a commitment to the relationship rather than an act of weakness. Be honest. Only apologize for things you truly feel responsible for; don't apologize just to make an unpleasant situation go away. Say it in writing if a personal confrontation is just way too scary. Give the other person some time to sort out his or her feelings - don't be discouraged if you aren't completely forgiven the moment you apologize.
2007-11-05 12:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by ~~Lisa~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for you.
I know she'll understand if you tell her. Say you will pay her back, maybe by selling things/collectibles on your street. Why can't you get a job? Call someone from the Phone Book accepting people with no experience. Good luck and bless you. Thank you for stopping drugs. I heard it's very hard. Stay strong. =)
2007-11-05 12:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come out in the open and come clean. Go to a rehab if you are on drugs and get clean. Confide in your Mom and tell her the truth about the money you stole from her, I am sure she would be very supportive of you. Remember your Mom loves you and will help you to succeed in life. You are on the right path by telling her, no matter what. You will feel better about yourself and you will move on.
Good luck!
2007-11-05 11:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to grow up ! you should be in rehab and then jail for stealing - and from your own mother - you have real issues !
If I was your mom I wouldnt even talk to you.
ok, all that aside - you need to just sit her down and talk with her,and tell her - if she presses charges - youll have to pay the consaquence.
Tell her you will find a way to pay it back - write out a contract between the two of you to pay back so much a month and have it notarised - this way she can sue you if you dont.
Get yourself into rehab - clean your act up and get a job
unless you dropped out of school or a sevearly dissabled - you can get a job.
If you dropped out of school - go get your GED.
Its time you grow up and take responsabillity for your actions
2007-11-05 12:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her flat out. There's no way to get around it. Tell her that you will pay her back no matter how long it takes.
DON'T, DON'T, DON'T ever do it again. Get off drugs, they will ruin your life and get you into more trouble than you are already in (go to some cold turkey class, etc.), get a job eventually and save up.
2007-11-05 11:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just sit down w/ her and tell her the truth. the more you hide it, the worse it will be and the worse ur punishment will be. It also depends on your moms personality. if she flips when somthing minor happens, then that is more difficult. try telling someone close to you, like ur dad, or a auntor uncle. But, if you feel comfortable, talk to her rite away and tell her.
2007-11-05 11:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just let ya mum know that you need to talk to her and then sit her down and let her know what you have done and maybe why you did it for. Cause the sooner you get it out the better you will be trust me i have been through this but worst.
2007-11-05 11:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need help, come out and tell your mother about your drug problem before you take your mother down with you. It sounds to me like your mother has spoiled you out of her love for you. It is time for you to respect that and own up to what you have been doing before it is to late. My guess is you are addicted to crack, it happens, but there is no excuse for you to continue this bad habit and hurting those around you. Please tell your mother so she can get you the help you need. ;-(
2007-11-05 11:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have one serious problem and you need to admit to yourself as too your mother you stole from her and that is totally wrong. How old are you?You are only thinking of ur self and that is wrong,GET A JOB and quit being lazy and you need to get helpSERIOUS help
2007-11-05 14:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by dolphinluvgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm your joking right? that is the most pathetic thing i have heard....and you think she will just say. ' oh ok honey ..well i guess i won't buy you a car!" umm no she will get mad ! you are a jerk for getting into drugs and to even think to steal money..even by stealing it makes you a jerk.. tell your mom and to bring you to a helping center so you would stop..you are pathetic..i hope that makes you stop doing drugs! you jerk
2007-11-05 11:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋