a few of my freinds got together and had an orgy four guys and six girls and now 2 of the girls are pregnant and we cant really say witch one of us is the fathers i just dont know what i would do if i would be i cant handle it
2007-11-05 11:49:19 · 43 answers · asked by dirk d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like a bunch of dirty whores
2007-11-06 07:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by s f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? If you know how to use a computer, you can't be so stupid as to have done this. Just how drunk were you? Get paternity tests and deal with the results. "A few of your friends got together"...you didn't even say, "and I." You're dreaming that this isn't going to touch you. Maybe you didn't have the strongest swimmers and you'll get out of this without a scratch. But when you grow up and become a father, I hope you remember this. And if one of the children is yours...Your were "man" enough to participate in an ORGY. Now be man enough to provide for the human being you created. You may have to give up some of your aspirations...according to how well heeled and accepting your family is. Regardless, do what's required of you. Get a real handle on who's the father, then deal with it. You have to put your head down and do the right thing here. Good luck, sweetie. I'd love to know how you make out with this. Yes, it's scary, but it's real and you have to step up to the plate and do what needs to be done. Find support and do the right thing. Best wishes.
2007-11-05 12:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by rb29440 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise! Surprise!
If you think you're upset, what do you think the girls feel?
What do you think their parent's must feel?
What do you think the child's life, should the girls not have an abortion, is gonna be like with a child as a parent?
Tell you what, I'll give you any sympathy I have left over after my sympathy goes out to them.
In the meantime, don't worry about finding out which of you is the father. A DNA test can settle that. And don't worry about AIDS, if you have it there's nothing to do and if you don't you don't have to worry. Until the next time you throw caution to the winds.
Oh, but if the girls are under-age and you're not, you might worry about statutory rape charges.
Was it worth it?
The price of freedom to choose is responsibility. Are you up to it?
Sorry, I know it's hard, (no pun intended) but this could be the best thing that ever happened to you - IF you learn from it and instead of squalling like a little kid you suck it up and start taking steps to using your intelligence, courage and strength. And if you don't use it as an excuse to blame everyone but your self and to feel sorry for yourself. It may be a hard time, but it'll pass.
2007-11-05 12:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by wordweevil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 Years
2007-11-05 11:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by wld_jkr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you use protection? I'm guessing not. How old are you? - what were you thinking.. no protection?
Well you better come forth with your parents even if you don't want to. Umm.. I'm not sure. I've never been faced with this dilemma.
The girls should definitely tell their parents.. because they WILL eventually find out if they haven't. If they choose to keep the kid and if you are proven to be the father of one of the kids, then you MUST pay for that child "some amount of money" til the child is 18.
2007-11-05 11:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should have thoght about that before your party for 10. What about these girls?...no sense either? Welcome to Maury Povich...Who's the Daddy! Truly though, I hope you figure it out and makes you guys think, or at least prepare when you're going to have sex. I feel sorry for the babies that are going to result, and have less than the proper chance of a normal upbringing with 2 parents who love them. I have to assume you're young, so tell your folks now what's going on...obviously you need some adult help and feedback on this. D'n'D
2007-11-05 11:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by DESPERATELY SEEKING SANITY!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im not going to lie, it was STUPID on your part to do it in the first place, you should of thought with your right head.
well what i would do, i would get all the guys, and two of the girls, and take them to a clinic, schedual an appiontment and just get DNA testing or whatever they do...best of luck to you bud.
just be safe next time, and dont have an orgy again, just have sex when your in love...
2007-11-05 11:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by pat k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay so i could go along and make fun of you for the mistake you have made just like everyone else, but my heart really does go out for you still, and im sure you have learned your lesson through this experience anyways. i mean if it does happen to be you, which you arent even sure if it is yet, you will have to take responsibility for what is going to happen. it is the girls decision in the end what she wants to with the baby, meaning keep it, or adoption. either way i think you will need to be there for her and for the decsion she makes. if this is hard on you, imagine how much harder it is for these 2 girls right now. and if in fact, the baby is not yours, you will still have 2 of your 3 friends who will now be fathers from this, and you will need to support them in this. i hope everything works out okay, and just make sure you stay calm and everything will hopefully take its path. god bless.
2007-11-05 11:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by Risa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why did u do it??? And if you are the father, what would you do? You can't expect an abortion. Once the baby is born, you can do a test and see who is the father. And if you are the father, just be the best one you can be. Who knows, you may be a good one!
2007-11-05 11:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mazie ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't just let the girls go on in life if you are the father. Take full reponsibility no matter what. If you are, then be proud. If you are ashamed, learn for next time.
2007-11-05 11:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to them and see a doctor to figure out if your the father or not. K?
2007-11-05 11:52:42 · answer #11 · answered by hollister_chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋