2007-11-05 11:42:11 · 15 answers · asked by johannah p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, I know where you are coming from. It's usually when one person has much more experience dealing with relationships (especially difficult ones), and they know what to say and when to say it. Little subtle nuiances mean everything. It will drive you crazy. I've been there--still there, kinda.
If you want control, pull the plug. You'll always be able to control that.
2007-11-05 11:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Byah! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not want to be in a relationship where you felt like you had to have control. No relationship is 100% equal all of the time but neither partner should feel like the other is lording over them. If that is the situation it is not a good place to be.
2007-11-05 11:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by Pussycat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand this part of your supposed 'question'
> and you don't know have to control it? <
'Know' + 'Have' to control it......!
Unless we are talking about a Parent + Child here, 'Why' should you or anyone HAVE TO 'control' a relationship?
It's not a car, or ship or a horse, it's (generally) two people involved with each other and who are exploring and learning about the other person and their self too. It doesn't require a 'driver,' so why the need to 'Control'?
Maybe you need to rethink the basis of your 'question' ..!..(and check the spelling and grammar) to clear up the errors that present themselves here.
Good luck.
Sash.
2007-11-05 11:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. It was a wild ride that was better than any movie. Lasted 8 months then flamed out--but it was world-class terrific and very expensive.
2007-11-05 11:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by TryItOnce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should have control in a relationship. Unfortunately it did happen to me, it was hell getting out of it! Get out now before it's to late!!!
2007-11-05 11:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by carolv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are not about control they are about love. If you want to control something buy a vibrator.
2007-11-05 11:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by jay k 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can't control a relationship. They just are. Either they're working or they're not.
2007-11-05 11:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by beffie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships aren't about who's in control, relationships are about partnerships as equals. you'll loose it if you try to control it.
2007-11-05 11:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope! You got to take control!
2007-11-05 11:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is some dressing for your word salad.
2007-11-05 11:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋