OK so on Saturday, i was in a car, with 5 guys, and my best friend, we were all wasted except for the driver he's responsible like that, and my best friend wanted to hook up w/ the guy driving, and her cousin was sitting next to her in the front seat, and i was in the back w/one of their other friends, and the drivers cousin. All this summer, i was hooking up w/ my best friends, cousin, and my best friend was hooking up w/ the drivers cousin, it was a no strings attatched, but i think we both started to feel for each other so we both backed off, but in the car, the drivers cousin asked me to give him a hand job, i said no, i was so wasted, later in the car ride to another, party, he unzipped his pants and grabbed my hand and yeah, i gave in and gave him a hand job, later that night i had sex with my best friends cousin, now i am super worried that he might find out what i did, and it might actually hurt him and i feel like super guilty over it, advice please!
2007-11-05 11:27:08 · 12 answers · asked by ruby_7 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my best friend said the her cousin wouldn't be mad at me but at him
2007-11-05 11:32:02 · update #1
I don't think you have to worry about hurting the guys feelings.
You should be more worried about your reputation.
I'm sure both guys think (actually know) you're easy and they shared you. Just like passing around a can of soda. I doubt very much they really care for you or your feelings.
2007-11-05 11:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by WilmaF 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is this a question or a statement? Sounds like you already know the answer.
You are worried about it, but personally, I think sexual encounters are just something that people do. Whether it is a one night stand type of thing or if it is while you're in a committed relationship, it is another part of developing romantic relationships. I wouldn't have a problem with my best friend and my cousin hooking up, unless I didn't like them, so it shouldn't be much of an issue.
The worst thing you could do is be sneaky or lie about it. You can't take it back anyways, so don't worry. No matter the result, you'll be fine.
2007-11-05 11:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Byah! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly maybe you should confront both guys not at the same time.Tell them both the truth.They deserve that much right.I mean it would be a whole lot worse if u waited untill he was totally in love with u and he found out. it would be better to tell him now before things get out of hand.What goes around comes around so clear your conscience and learn from your mistakes.
2007-11-05 11:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mercedes aka gata cubana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice: stop being a sk@nk. If you keep "hooking up" with multiple people in the same group of friends, you're gonna be dealing with nonstop drama, which you may or may not thrive on (I knew some people in school like this). Oh, and not to mention your reputation is probably horrible (not that you care). Oh, and alcohol is probably not helping your decision making....
2007-11-05 11:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by wrx580 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O wow...that is bad really bad. It honestly sounds like my Friday nights with my friend and her cousin and their friends, unfortunatly. All
I could say is just come out clean and just tell him you were really wasted and you didn't take control. Maybe somebodys feelings will get hurt... but atleast the drama will be minimal thatn having someone else tell them what happened.
2007-11-05 11:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jose P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a busy year you're having.
Honestly, with everyone messing around with everyone else, and all the drinking going on, unless you are boyfriend and girlfriend I wouldn't worry about it. He probably will find out, so be prepared for that.
2007-11-05 11:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start hanging out with a new group of friends. This one seems like it's going to get you into alot of trouble. Remember misery loves company, and your headed strait for disaster.
2007-11-05 11:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by dannah1129 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
reallllly!
well if you and your best friends cousin said no strings attached, than he really cant get mad. u might want to worry about catching something
2007-11-05 11:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by niecce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta cutback on the alcohol. Otherwise, your gonna continue to do stupid things. More booze = more drama.
2007-11-05 11:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by TryItOnce 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a whore? Or are you just practicing to be a future porn star?
2007-11-05 11:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by multione88 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋