He is sooooooooooooo into that but I always said no, now I've started something with someone & I want him to be a part of it.
2007-11-05 08:37:27 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him straight out...
2007-11-05 08:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by puertolinda2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to be open and honest in your relationship, so sit down with him and explain that you know he's always wanted to try it and that you've found a third party you'd like to be involved - then see if he's STILL into the idea (fr a lot of folks the fantasy idea is always going to be better than the reality of risking a relationship on it actually happening).
2007-11-05 08:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kell S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's like 9.9 out of 10 guys I've known, he'll probably enjoy a visit from her. Just be careful with this sort of thing.....it's like opening "Pandora's Box." I've seen a few marriages/relationships bust up over 3-somes and more-somes.
Just something else to consider before you/she/he take the plunge.
2007-11-05 08:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fun. Either tell him, honey I found someone interesting and I think she would like to join us and I would like to have her. Or you could watch a porn together and during the girl on girl scene tell him you have been thinking more about that and kind of have someone in mind.
2007-11-05 08:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by misbotta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since everyone is so comfortable with it, just tell him, unless you know he'll get mad because you always said no, and now you've gone behind his back and had all the fun for yourself........ You never know, telling him will be like opening pandora's box.
Good luck!
2007-11-05 08:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by 00silky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your thing with her until he brings up the subject again, or put yourself into the situation, like watch a movie together and say "oh she's hot" then of course him being a guy he's gonna bring up the issue of a 3some, then BAM! say ok but with 1 of my friends cause i wanna feel comfortable.. good luck let me know how it goes ..
2007-11-06 00:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My love I am Bi, I want you so much, but also want another woman.
Now if any man is not turned on by this.
Forget the relation ship, with your man.
There must be 1000,000,000. Men looking for you.
Please include Me
2007-11-05 08:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already started something without him knowing?! Hopefully he won't get mad about that part. Bring her over and just start playing....he would probably be pleasantly surprised.
2007-11-05 08:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by bulldogclover75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is every guys dreeeeeam, just be honest with your guy. try not hide it. sometimes the lie hurts more than the secret, so tell him. if he reacts in a reasonable way, and he likes to try new things your boyfriend would be ok with it.
2007-11-05 08:44:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said no???!!
Why on earth would you do that?!
You'll just have to tell him straight out, if you can't do that then just let him catch you and then pretend that you don't really want him to know but you'll do it he forces you to. He'll get a big ***** off that one.
2007-11-05 08:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by beachbum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce each other and hope for the best. Good Luck!
2007-11-05 08:39:53 · answer #11 · answered by tootsierollroad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋