2007-11-05 08:35:06 · 7 answers · asked by bubbly4you 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would try being married first!
2007-11-05 08:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by bulldogclover75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready then enough said, you are doing the right thing in waiting... for it is a hard job. If your bf wants children, why not marry because he could leave, and you would have to bare the burden alone, are you ready for that. There are a lot of consideration to consider when thinking of having children, try planting that thought in his mind, and maybe he will see the big picture. I am loving your thoughts in not being push into something you know you are not ready for...good show.
2007-11-05 18:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a step to be taken lightly. Truth be told - even people who think they are ready realize after awhile that they were not as ready as they thought. My general rule for people is this: Whenever you think you are ready - wait an extra year or two - then do it. Parenting is tough and not a part time job either.
2007-11-05 16:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready , then don't..
Remember who will be stuck with those kids two-three years down the line when some hottie turns his head..
Better to wait until he marries you , before even thinking about kids....
2007-11-05 16:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him you are not ready! You dont want to bring a child in this world without being ready. It is such a big responsibillity!
2007-11-05 16:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by amanda h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that. You don't have to say never, but make it clear that you are not ready yet.
2007-11-05 16:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready then don't do it. If he loves you then he should respect that.
2007-11-05 16:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by Stacy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋