Well, my dad's company has finally closed after a good few years of working their way out of debt and my dad taking the time to find his employees new jobs. But now he is looking for a job and many companies have gotten his hopes up with second, third interviews and then he finds out he did get the job. And meanwhile my mom has been working three jobs just so I can stay in College. Whare are some ways I can show them I appreciate their sacrifices?
2007-11-05 07:30:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I agree, from a Mom of teens I would have to say just hearing it means so much. Small gestures go so far. A hallmark card, a thank you note, something small but meaningful. Bringing your Mom her favorite flower with a thank you note attached. A card for Dad with your favorite memory of you and him together. There is no sacrifice too great when it comes to our children, but to know that you appreciate it says so much more than you know!
2007-11-05 07:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Dana M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a fantastic question. So many people feel that it's their parents' "duty" to do these things, without realizing the real blood, sweat and tears that are part of parenthood-- all done willingly, and with love, mind you, but are sacrifices nonetheless. Bravo, you.
Meantime, you can show you appreciate their sacrifices by making them proud of you-- don't do things that would be embarrassing to them or that would jeopardize all the work they've gone through to help you get where you're heading. Make sure you drop them a line now and then (not sure if you live with them) or call, if you can. If you live at home, try to make the time to just SPEND TIME with them. Help with chores around the house, wash the car, or surprise your mom or dad by just asking to take a walk with them.
The greatest reward parents have is children who show care. You seem to have your head screwed on straight already, but taking the steps of just randomly saying "Thank you, mom and dad, for everything," and being a good quality person with them and when NOT with them, is the biggest reward.
They know you appreciate it... but it's always lovely to hear it.
2007-11-05 07:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by LJG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case, I know I havent been really appreciative of my parents and people around me. But its best that you acknowledge them and let them know that you are thankful for everything. Now, on the kids tip, my little's are 21 months and 6 months old. I am very thankful to have them in my life. They give me courage and hope that everything is going to be ok. Also, plan a nice dinner and a event. That will be cool!!!
2016-04-02 06:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What most parents want is just a simple thank you and the recognition of he sacrifices they are making and to feel appreciated. Mean while, do what you can do to help out. Get a part time job etc.., if you don't already have one. If you still live at home or close to home, help out around the house etc..,
Your folks sound great. I hope it works out for your Dad.
2007-11-05 07:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ability to recognize the efforts your parents are making for you proves that you are a good kid. Put your gratitude into words -- it will make your parents feel great. If you are away at school, extra phone calls and even a card here and there will make your parents feel appreciated. As for helping, if you're at home and can pick up some slack around the house and yard, it will not go unnoticed. Above all, do well at school -- this is what we make our sacrifices for -- our kids' futures. Good luck to you and your family.
2007-11-05 08:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by HelloHello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything you can help with in the house would probably mean a lot to them. I have a friend who, when his mother was ill, he began helping with the cooking and grocery shopping. That took a lot off their plate. Do things without ever being asked that need to be done, whether it be cleaning, cooking, or whatever. The more help you are the easier their lives will be and the more time they may have to relax. You sound like really good kid and your parents should be proud.
2007-11-05 08:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is do your best. I completely understand where you are coming from. If you want your parents to be truly happy, do your best. At least after all their hard work they can smile just thinking about how their chile is taking on the responsibility of doing exceptionally well in school. Study hard, and that will be the best present they could ever get. They want to see you succeed.
2007-11-05 08:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by JessyE19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make dinner for them. Wash there cars, take them out for a night on the town. That is so cool of you, most kids dont show how greatful they are, they seem to have that attitude that they owe them or something. Good for you!!!!
2007-11-05 07:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by myangelsfuture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a good kid. as a parent, i can tell you, that little things mean alot. helping them with the house and yard is a big load off. since you're in school, helping with the bills is probably not an option but, that doesn't mean you can't pitch in in other ways. curb your spending at school whenever possible too.
2007-11-05 07:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,,stay away from drugs and alcohol. If you get busted everything you desire is thrown away to the wind. Show them by taking time to be with them and talking to them and respecting them.
2007-11-05 07:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋