like this guy named Brian. I met him when i was out in San Diegio about 3 months ago.. while in San Diego, i had no where to live.. so he let me into his apt and I lived with him for 2 months. well I had to come back out to FL for a little bit and he told me that he used to live here (Ft lauderdale.. like 20 minz from me.. what a small world right?!) well he told me right before I left for FL, that he is infatuated with me, and to not go falling in love with a guy out in FL.. yes we did have sex while I was there.. kiss/cuddle/like one another/etc etc..He also was almost crying when I left AND he told me that he would be out at the end of sept to visit Ft laudaerdale and how he def wanted to visit me while here for a week.
Well he did come out at the end of Sept.. we spent 1 day together and he was here for almost 2 weeks. He didn't have his own phone.. but the dude he was stayin with out here was letting him use his phone.. he hardly called.. and
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when I called he never answered.. finally he did call back apologizing saying he was busy with these odd jobs to make money and he promises how he wants to hang out more than 1 day.. etc etc.. well we did see each other once.. we did have sex.. talk.. he told me he didnt want a relationship so fast because he is recently divorced and was in bad relationships (same with me!!.. just got divorced too.. abusive relationship)
well he is back in San Diego now.. and I was just talking to 1 of his friends whom I have met/hung out with at his house/drank/partied with/etc etc.. he called me saying that Brian called him last week and when he (donnie) told brian that I have been asking bout him.. he told me that brian told him.. "Don't even tell her I am back out here in San Diego" "I am not interested anymore".. this all seems WAYYY off and not like Brian at all. Brian has been swearing up and down how he isn't like every other guy.. and i can trust him.. and 'how often have you fallen for
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guy like me" "I promise u have nothing to worry bout.. i wont hurt you.. etc etc" cause i told him straight out that I do like him.. but i am scared to get too close cause of my past divorce/relationships/etc etc..
Also.. I am planning on going back out to San Diego.. I already have the bus ticet and have had it for a long time now.. its for the 7th.. gets to san diego on the 9th.. I told donnie on the phone lastnight and he told me that I can always live with him and his brother in his apartment in San Diego if i have no where else to go (which i sorta don't.. so i am taking him up on his offer)
thing is.. BRIAN lives there too.. in the spare bedroom. (he pays rent like a roomate)
well.. brian hasen't been back to the apartment since he has been back to San Diego (he is stayin in some other part of San Diego.. male friend of his has a time share so he stays there a lot).. donnie and i talked till like 3am my time on the phone lastnight.. i was making sure he was for real
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allowing me to stay/live with them/etc etc..
welll about 2 hours ago.. he finally told me bout what Brian said to him on the phone (he claims he called him 1 week ago and told him that he wasent interested in me etc)
why on earth would he not have told me lastnight on the phone all that time???
I am going to be living with him for gosh sakes.. AND Brian lives there too!.. how awkward would it be??
Donnie claims he didnt want to hurt my feelings by telling me AND he said he was drunk on the phone lastnight which that is true.. but he was with it enough to talk to me/make sense.
I told donnie how i feel for brian just a little earlier.. i told him that I do indeed love brian.. and no matter how brian feels.. my feelings will never change towards him. that is why Donnie told me.. "well if brian doesn't feel the same way.. can you deal with that?" I said yes.. and he told me "well he told me a week ago on the phone that he isnt interested anymore"..
its wayyy hard to
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to believe.. it really is..
I mean he came to see me while visiting out here.. we had a nice/serious/adult convo.. he MADE me tell him exactly how i feel towards him.. i didnt want to because i hate rejection, but i did cause he basically "pumped it out of me" plus he already knew how i felt for him cause i somwhat told him out in san diego before i moved.. he told me that he wanted to "hear everything how it truly is" so i told him and i told him how i want to eventually 1 day be with him and he said "that is possible"
Even though he never said he loved me back.. I can tell in his eyes that something is there for me.. Eyes don't lie. the way he looks at me with such serious eyes and the sincere look on his face.. its un real.. i am head over heals for this guy. i pray Donnie is lying and he never did tell him that he wasent interested.
Also.. Donnie likes me a lot.. last night he wouldn't stop talkin bout sexually stuff on the phone.. bout how he wants to F*** me/etc etc.
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sooo any ideas??? I asked another 1 of my friends and he seems to think it can be a lie because Donnie wants me/likes me/etc etc
I just don't understand how he wants me to come live in his apt until i get my sh*t situated, BUT he didn't tell me bout all this stuff that Brian supposedy said bout me until today (2 or so hours ago) when we were on the phone all night/early am yesterday.
Also.. Donnie and I were talking 3 days ago and he told me that Brian called him and said he was finally back in San Diego.. BUT Donnie just told me that Brian supposedly said all of this 1 week ago (about not wanting me to know he was back in San Diego.. and not interested in me)
Also.. I asked donnie what Brian's EXACT words were.. and he says.. " I dont remember his EXACT words, but it was something like "Don't even tell her I am back in San Diego" then Donnie said "Why dude.. you done with her?" and Brian says "Not interested any more"
I am sooooooooo confused and heart broken.. MEN! AGH!
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let me add.. when i was living in san diego with brian.. Brian wasen't living with Donnie yet.. Brian had a roomate and they both agreed to let me stay/live there. Well Brian got kicked out since I have been gone from san diego, and Donnie invited him to live with him in his place.
I really think Donnie likes/wants me and after hearing me tell him on the phone how much I truly do like/love brian.. he is wanting to try and wreck it by me thinking Brian is done with me.. so i get all upset and turn to Donnie for comfort.. and then hopefully to him.. i fall for him.. sound bout right?
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let me add.. when i was living in san diego with brian.. Brian wasen't living with Donnie yet.. Brian had a roomate and they both agreed to let me stay/live there. Well Brian got kicked out since I have been gone from san diego, and Donnie invited him to live with him in his place.
I really think Donnie likes/wants me and after hearing me tell him on the phone how much I truly do like/love brian.. he is wanting to try and wreck it by me thinking Brian is done with me.. so i get all upset and turn to Donnie for comfort.. and then hopefully to him.. i fall for him.. sound bout right?
BUT.. Brian never calls me.. he swears he doesn't have his own phone (had one when i was there, but it got turned off from lack of paying the bill) BUT.. obviously he has a phone of some kind or access to one because he does call Donnie..
Also.. Brian isn't online.. but his screename is on there with a cell phone icon next to his name.. don't u HAVE to have a working phone to be able to have that
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let me add.. when i was living in san diego with brian.. Brian wasen't living with Donnie yet.. Brian had a roomate and they both agreed to let me stay/live there. Well Brian got kicked out since I have been gone from san diego, and Donnie invited him to live with him in his place.
I really think Donnie likes/wants me and after hearing me tell him on the phone how much I truly do like/love brian.. he is wanting to try and wreck it by me thinking Brian is done with me.. so i get all upset and turn to Donnie for comfort.. and then hopefully to him.. i fall for him.. sound bout right?
BUT.. Brian never calls me.. he swears he doesn't have his own phone (had one when i was there, but it got turned off from lack of paying the bill) BUT.. obviously he has a phone of some kind or access to one because he does call Donnie..
Also.. Brian isn't online.. but his screename is on there with a cell phone icon next to his name.. don't u HAVE to have a working phone to be able to have that
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let me add.. when i was living in san diego with brian.. Brian wasen't living with Donnie yet.. Brian had a roomate and they both agreed to let me stay/live there. Well Brian got kicked out since I have been gone from san diego, and Donnie invited him to live with him in his place.
I really think Donnie likes/wants me and after hearing me tell him on the phone how much I truly do like/love brian.. he is wanting to try and wreck it by me thinking Brian is done with me.. so i get all upset and turn to Donnie for comfort.. and then hopefully to him.. i fall for him.. sound bout right?
BUT.. Brian never calls me.. he swears he doesn't have his own phone (had one when i was there, but it got turned off from lack of paying the bill) BUT.. obviously he has a phone of some kind or access to one because he does call Donnie..
Also.. Brian isn't online.. but his screename is on there with a cell phone icon next to his name.. don't u HAVE to have a working phone to be able to have that
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when I IM the name it says "your message has been sent to my mobile device.. when i get it i can respond back"
and to just make matters all the more better.. (yeah right!)
my period is going on being late.. and i am having pregnancy symptoms.. if i find out i am preggo, i am going to be scared to death to tell him/donnie cause they will just say that i am saying that to get to be with him.. and when it turns out i am in fact pregnant, he could want a DNA test.. he was the LAST person i was with.. so its for sure his baby if i am
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Also.. Donnie keeps saying he is 100% sure that I am welcome to live there in his apt with him/his twin brother/and Brian.
What would you do? would you move in or not if you were me and in this situation?
Brian doesn't even know bout the possibility of me moving in as of right now.. Donnie said the next time Brian calls, he is going to talk to him bout it.. but Donnie is saying since its his (and his brothers house) then they don't care what Brian says.. I am still welcome.
you have noooo idea how much i wish to god that donnie is lying bout brian saying that stuff.
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i have no idea how i repeated stuff a bunch of times.. sorry bout that.
2007-11-05 01:23:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn, that is one long question.
Basically my thoughts on this are 1) Donnie is probably lying to try and get you into bed, However that doesn't mean that Brian didn't say those things, Men say bull**** things to their mates.
2) I don't think that Brian is interested, If you are interested in a woman then nothing will keep you apart, I moved cross country to be with my now wife after a few meetings, because I knew it was to be, there is no chance I would have avoided seeing her if we where near by.
I really hope that you have other reasons to go to San Diego than just for Brian as the relationship is just too one sided at the moment.
Hopefully though if you do go out there Brian will see that you are sincere, but please don't throw yourself in too deep incase it doesn't work out, you owe yourself more than that.
Whatever you do have pride in yourself and you will be alright.
Post a question when you have it sorted as I need the final chapters to your book. :-)
2007-11-05 01:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by ebungle 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think this is too long to be worth reading. Perhaps if you paid someone to act out this script we might be able to sit through the resulting feature length film and gain enough insight from it to give a good response.
2007-11-05 01:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow i got half way but i dont have time to finish! you should really just call brian and find out whats going on. theres no point trying to figure it out. you're gonna have to talk to him if you're going to be living with him so the sooner you get it sorted the better. good luck! keep us updated!
2007-11-05 01:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by sarahryan86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn dude - all i can say is WHEW... i think you should move in over there. but i also think that donnie likes you. as far as brian goes, F**K that loser.. if he can't call and such... then he is a loser and you shouldn't care about him. i would go just to make it HARD on him --- for you to be there!!
i hope i helped!
2007-11-05 01:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by . pickles . 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn... Well the fact that he came down here to florida and only ssaw you once shoulda told you right off the bat that this dude is playin. if the dude was interested, he would call you.... EVERYONE HAS CELL PHONES. except for him, he could borrow someones phone.... forget him hon!!!
2007-11-05 01:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG my head hurts. I hope your not prego either but I did not read all of that.
Just stay away from losers!
2007-11-05 01:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you were in an abusive marriage? I'm a very gentle spirited guy, but I think I would have beat the crap out of you. That is the most immature drivel I've ever read.
2007-11-05 01:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by TatersPop 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
LEAVE HIM ALONE! apparently he doesnt want anything to do with u anymore :(
2007-11-05 01:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by nicki_viau 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your quest is tobig pl make sort cut
2007-11-05 01:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by Gadhvi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
writing a book?
2007-11-05 01:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋