i don't think i will really do it, but it's all i want... i want to go back into my semi-abusive relationship that i just got out of it because its better than this life of nothing, all i can do is cry, i'm even at work and cant stop crying...
what am i supposed to do? i dont know what to do, i feel so hopeless...
2007-11-05 00:33:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
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2007-11-05 01:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by Soul Doctor 7 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Lucy,
Don't let yourself keeping falling further into the rut. Stop yourself and ask some questions. Would you really be better off in the abusive relationship? Or would you be more abused? Crying in case you didn't know, is a good thing. Let it out! Cry, bellow, yalp it all out! Kick boxes, smack around a punching bag. We all need a good cry. It helps to drain out the bad emotions, bad karma and bad memories. Do you have any close family members or friends that you trust as confidants? If so, call them and talk it out. This is your first step in asking for help. Good job! Now, help yourself a little more by talking out your frustrations and most importantly, call your doctor. Not a shrink. Your physician and tell him/her about your bout with this depressive state of mind. Your doctor can and may prescribe some "happy pills" to get your brain's chemistry back in check.
Above all, please remember, you are NOT alone, it is NOT hopeless and you are NOT helpless. An important thing to always remember is "Time heals all wounds". It will take some time to get over your slump, but YOU CAN DO IT and you can do BETTER too! Keep your head up and cheer up!
~Kinkaide
2007-11-05 00:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by DB 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
First off, if you do feel like your a danger to yourself or others, you need to go to whatever mental hospital is around you to get some help. If you are just having this thoughts as you say you do, I recommend if you are still a minor and in school....talk to your parents and tell them what you are going through...I know it can be hard because in teenage years most teens dislike their parents and don't trust them. It will only benefit you telling them what is going on right now in your head. So, you should tell them what is going on, and if not them maybe a school counsler who can then maybe help you tell your parents. Then, you should definitely find a psychatrist to go to, and a therapist. If you are legally an adult, I would if you are in danger of yourself and others, go get help at a mental hospital. If you don't think that is a good idea, well then get some professional advice and find a therapist and psychatrist. They can lead you in the right direction what to do....but I have been feeling like you have in the past...and these are the actions that I took. Crying is natural, there is nothing wrong with it....its the way your letting out all your hurt that your expierencing at the moment. Cry for as long as you need....even if its at work! Feeling hopeless is a sign of depression so you should seek help from a professional. Don't give in to temptation to re-enter your past semi-abusive relationship. What good is that going to do you? Most likely just make you feel more like crap and more depressed and maybe even to lead you to kill yourself. I know I don't know you on a personal level but I would hate to see something like that happen to you. You gotta think positive, I know it can be hard when your constantly sad...but I have been able to do it, just try is all I ask. Just hang in there until you find the help you need....I would find it A.S.A.P. though that way you can get on your road to recovery! You can totally do this! Good Luck with everything! Take Care and be Safe! :)
~Christine :)
2007-11-05 00:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Lucy, as a person who just got out of a bad relationship , all I can say is that learn from your mistakes and make sure it never repeats.
My girlfriend pretty much screwed my life from top to bottom. I gave up my friends and fun life to baby-sit her and in the end she ended up cheating on me. Now when i look back, i am not able to justify all the time i wasted catering her needs.
But i learned an all-important lesson that there is a limit to which you must bend yourself to somebody else; beyond it , is just a lost cause.
Every bad relationship , i believe is a stepping stone to the perfect one.If you think your boyfriend is abusive, say good-bye and move on. Keep your hopes high and eyes open, because there is somebody else waiting for you,it is just a matter of time before you find him. Somebody who will support you in your life and somebody who will need your support in his life.
And as I have learned, there is no point is wasting time in crying about something that happened in the past, let's use that time to make our future better. Cheer up and Good luck in your future.
PS: i know the answer is more than a little philosophical.I am sorry about that. But catching a break from the normal life helps alot to see that life is not sucky after all. Go for hiking, roadtrip, beaches, amusement parks, or anyplace that will take your mind off for a bit. Then you find it really easy to laugh about the past. Take care.
2007-11-05 00:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by Madhavan 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
oh Sweetie, what ever else you do DO NOT GO BACK. You are worth so much more than that. When you have been in an abusive relationship your self confidence and low self esteem makes you feel like you can get no one else or no one would have you. That's the way they want you to think, its a control issue. Well I am here to tell you you are so much better than that and worth so much more than that.
There is always hope even when it seems there is none.
I think you need to get some therapy to help you deal with your feelings right now and boost your confidence, you may need meds to help to start with but don't be too quick to rush into that as anti depressants just mask the problem the fixing has to come from within you.
Fear is nothing more than a mental monster we create in our minds we are not born with it, so as quick as it appeared it can disappear OK. Who looks outside dreams............ he who looks inside awakens. So you have to look deep inside yourself here to get past this feeling.
Set yourself a goal, just a small one and achieve that, make it come true , once you have done that then set yourself another one and so on. There are no mistakes in life Hun just lessons, learn from this one and stay strong OK.
2007-11-05 00:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you are in immediate danger,
Call 1-800-suicide.
Call your local emergency services office.
To help yourself otherwise,
Find a support group for survivors or abusive relationships.
Find a depression support group.
Get involved with a spirituality group.
The point is to learn how to value yourself and to care for yourself. There are many, many women who've been where you are now, and have found ways to live, survive and thrive. I'm certain that you can as well.
Do what you need to insure your safety first. Then you can work on becoming healthy and vibrant!
You can do this. If you wish, you can send me an email. Maybe I can help you find a group in your area that can help.
Blessings,
--Dee
2007-11-05 01:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by Deirdre H 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-08-17 06:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by jason w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need immediate treatment. Go to the nearest mental health facility or regular emergency room and tell them what you said here. They may admit you or they may give you some medication to stabilize you until you can get into therapy. But therapy won't help much until your brain is functioning much better than it is now. So get some help so you can get better enough to get more permanent help.
2007-11-05 00:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by mommanuke 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2007-11-05 03:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by R2D2 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
go see a psychitrist, someone u can talk to, try to think of all the good times an good things u've been through even when u were a kid, so hold on.
2007-11-05 00:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by tinkie1992 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋