ive been out of order - rude and pathetic - and my girlfriend is an absolute angel.
How do i say sorry?
She's ok, a bit down, but we have spoken about the problem, and i realise what a jerk ive been.
i want her to know how sorry i am, and that i will never speak to her like i did, ever again.
but how?
2007-11-04 23:52:34 · 14 answers · asked by WhyTuesday 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, she deserves better. i know im not good enough for her. she's amazing, no one is good enough for her.
i slipped up, i was wrong, and i regret it.
but i love her with all my heart, and i always will.
2007-11-04 23:57:02 · update #1
If you really mean it, then dont wait for the right time, just hurry now towards her. With the truthness in your eyes, love in your heart and sweetness in your voice say her that you are really very very sorry and wont hurt her again. As she is angelic she will do understand you.
Plus if you please , you can buy a bouquet flowers for her on the way.
Hurry up!!! Good Luck.
2007-11-05 00:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by a new world 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly sorry, just be straight up.....but don't make it a habit of being a jerk and oh I'm sorry, she'll forgive me she did the "last" time. Every time you chip away at the heart it leaves a small void. Chip enough away and there will be nothing left for you no matter how much an angel she is.....the human element still remains.....think about it!
2007-11-05 08:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saying I'm sorry is symbolic of an understanding of the way you have harmed her. If you want her to accept the words your behavior needs to show you now understand something about her and your relationship that you did not when you wronged her. Its a very hard thing to fake. Good luck
2007-11-05 07:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by temerson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is, if you did it before, what stops you doing it again?
Anyone can say "I'm sorry", "I won't do it again" or spend a bit of money on a present.
The fact that you're not bothering to find something personal and meaningful to you and her for yourself shows you're not really that serious about the relationship.
If you are, turn off the computer and figure it out for yourself. You're the only one that knows what you and her are like.
2007-11-05 07:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by Bob R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be sincere. Let her know how genuinely apologetic you are, and you're really interested in changing. Don't make any promises you can't honor, but encourage her to tell you when you, unwittingly, make a comment that hurts or offends her.
The best way to show her how sorry you are is by changing, and learning from your mistake. She's going to be looking for that, and when she sees the effort you've made, that's what is going to really count.
2007-11-05 07:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Zombi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make a romantic meal for two and apologise again. Maybe ask her what dvd she fancies seeing (and you watch it together, girlie film or not). Then at that point you can kiss and make up properly. Don't beat yourself up too much, we can also be idiots at times (even the nice ones can be mean). Good luck.
2007-11-05 07:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Yanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation before.
Ask her how long you been making her feel bad.
Say initially you didnt realise but now you do and that if you could start all over again you would.
Then ask for her forgiveness
2007-11-05 08:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by Rhys_Malone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Action talks louder than words ! Saying sorry is not enough you should show her you are sorry!
Take her out tonight and buy her a rose ...let her see your gentle half...
Good Luck
2007-11-05 07:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by mona_atraki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ritually slay a goat and lay the carcass at her feet.
Well, that's probably TOO old-school for these modern times.
Say it, sure, but far more important is SHOW IT -- demonstrate it, live it, mean it, every chance you get.
2007-11-05 08:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With flowers and a nice dinner. And a SINCERE apology with a promise never to be that way again. And then keep your promise.
2007-11-05 07:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by Marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋