2007-11-04 16:37:44 · 3 answers · asked by Astrid A 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
To start, your motivation shouldnt be to have a relationship. You goal is to be happy with yourself. To beat insecurity with yourself, you have to find out what is causing you to feel insecure. If its something you cant change, learn to see the positive, if its something you can change, change it. If its people around you that are making you feel insecure, dont have them in your lives. If its weight, and you dont like how you look, change it. If its your nose, and you dont like it, learn to see the positive. Its how you look at things.
2007-11-04 17:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop focusing on your own feelings so much; to be in a secure relationship, you need to be able to focus on the other person.
2007-11-05 03:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will feel safer with people who are like yourself. If you are with a person from a social group that is loyal and bonded together you will never be happy. Be safe in a safe place.
2007-11-05 00:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋