what you visit on line, how you dress, who your friends are, etc. etc. etc.? Especially the sleep thing, like you have to go to bed when you aren't tired because they say so?
2007-11-04 12:23:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Alright. First of all, I was overexaggerating and I made my bf sound like my control freak exes. Sorry baby, glitch from the past.
Next, thanks to Chris B. And Coop for making me be objective and not so gender biased. If I could split best answer, I would but no !!! It goes to my friend Tri-force because he is always the first to make me laugh and because he is going to become a very good match for some lucky witch some day. Thank you sweetie, if it weren't illegal I'd send you some nudie pics!!!! Oh yeah, there's that internet thing again, oops sorry Tom baby !!( I NEVER do that kind of thing anymore...) LOL
2007-11-05 08:04:14 · update #1
because we are all f*cking a** holes. nah im just kidding! only most of us are!
2007-11-04 13:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! That boy has a trust issue...big time! Now let me say this...I do think he has a problem in general but the on-line thing I do understand! I've witnessed many a relationship go to pieces because of on-line dalliances. True, there is always something wrong with a relationship if someone is flirting on-line but many partners cannot admit it and do something constructive to fix it! Instead they get on-line and get into all sorts of crap.
Generally speaking, knowing who ones friends are is a good thing. It tells the other party a bit about who you are, BUT, anything that goes overboard is not healthy. Dressing is another one of "those" things. Are you dressing for you, for him or for anyone whose eye you can catch? Hopefully you dress for you with a little bit of dressing just for him...but always be careful when you dress a bit tooooooo much! You'll have a hassle about it.
Everything you have brought up tells me the guy has a control thing. Be wary and don't let it get out of hand, if it isn't already.
2007-11-04 21:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Chris B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This man sounds like he's just a few steps away from becoming abusive.
These are the 10 signs to be aware of:
1. Jealousy & Possessiveness
2. Control
3. Superiority
4. Manipulates
5. Mood swings
6. Actions don't match words
7. Punishes you
8. Unwillingly to seek help
9. Disrespects women
10. History of abuse
I have attached an on line resourse for you, please read, this could become serious.
2007-11-04 20:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by straycat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They don't if they are normal and mine certainly does not.
This is not a healthy situation. I would suggest you seriously think about who you are with here, and I apologize for offering unsolicited advice. A person who tries to exert that much control on a loved one is very very insecure and such relationships have been known to become abusive. I 'm not saying yours is or will become so.
But the red flags are all over this one, my friend. Please take care of yourself, consult a trusted friend, and really consider your options.
peace,
Lady Morgana )0(
2007-11-04 20:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Morgana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever relationship you are in, you need to GET OUT!! You obviously feel something is wrong here, or you wouldn't have asked this...and you are right, no man has the right to control anything you don't want him too...this is a form of emotional abuse...that sad thing is, for a guy like this, if you tell him no, or to mind his own business...it could lead to physical abuse. Seek counseling if this is a serious, adult relationship...and if you are young or the relationship is really new...get out!! Get out now!! Find a man who isn't trying to control you!
2007-11-04 20:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by Carolyn H 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are living with a control freak. Run, don't walk, run away from this guy. You will be nothing but miserable the longer you stay with him. A normal, loving man does not control his partner. He allows her to be herself and do the things that make her happy.
2007-11-04 20:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not all guys, sweetie. Just the one you happen to be with. He likes to control you. If you dont' want to be controlled, find someone else who won't control you.
2007-11-04 20:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called sharing, dumb is it not. I broke up with women for the same reason. I live my life, you live yours. For men and women it is called control, don't like it. If you have women friends they want you to drop them, sound familiar. Don't just lay it at the feet of men.
2007-11-04 21:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ruuuuuunnn!!! trust me been there done that.
2007-11-04 20:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by roses 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋