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My husband is in the army and stationed in Camp Casey south korea, i have been living with my parents with our 2 children because we didnt get a permanant duty station b4 he left adn we decided it would b cheaper and easier. well we regret it now. my parents didnt like the idea that i was trying to find an apartment for the kids and me n they went and filed for protective custody. we go to court at the end of nevember. my question is will my husband be able to come home for court so we can get the kids back? and will they station him stateside so that we dont lose them again? please help

2007-11-04 09:54:47 · 6 answers · asked by manda 2 in Politics & Government Military

my mom n dad went and lied and said that i was abusing my children. i grew up being abused by them i would never hurt my children, neglect them or anything. my mom didnt want me to move out and take the kids away from her so she got this idea in her crazy lil head that this could actually work but wut she doesnt realize is that if i was abusing the kids, i live in her home and it is gonna look bad on her because she let it go on. i am tellin u everything i have no reason to leave ne thing out. basically they got mad cuz i wanted to move n made up lies to get the kids temporarily and the judge granted it gave us a court date and start investigating.

2007-11-04 10:57:59 · update #1

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I'm going to tell a little story so just be patient. My younger brother is in Iraqi and his wife and kids live 3 blocks from me. My wife and I did the best we could to help her while my brother is away. She was lazy, slept around, didn't cook for the kids, and stayed out all night leaving two young teens at home by themselves. We now have custody of them until my brother returns.
My point, the only way your parents could have taken your kids is if you were useless like my sister-in-law. I'm not trying to be mean but those are the facts as I see them.

2007-11-04 11:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by 2nd AD/ 4th ID 5 · 1 0

When I was in Korea, an airman went to his first sergeant and said that his wife was abusing the their children and under the care of a shrink and he had to go home to take care of them. The shirt explained that the kids would be safe in foster care until his tour was up. After that, his wife wasn't crazy any more.

He maybe be able to come home for a court date with sufficient notice but he will have to pay for the trip out of his pocket and use ordinary leave.

2007-11-04 21:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

that is not a valid reason to get Humanitarian reassignment.

There must be more to the story.. why would your parents try and take custody away from you? Just looking for an apartment cannot be the reason, they must feel you are a poor parent or something.

he will NOT get stationed Stateside just for that reason. and only if his Command says he can take leave will he be able to come back for court.

2007-11-04 18:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mrsjvb 7 · 3 0

there is something missing. they wouldn't be filing for pc just for you trying to find an apartment and wanting to move out. there have to be grounds. you didn't say why and there isn't enough info to say one way or the other.

p.s.

a little side note: they more than likely will let him come home to deal with this. but word to the wise, be careful what you wish for. once upon a time a guy was stationed in korea and his wife was having all types of problems with cps and all of that and he applied for reassignment. the army did him one better and kicked him out because of the "extreme hardship" they figured that he was incapable of handling his affairs. i'm not saying that this is the case but if this is a way that you think he can come home, you might want to rethink that.

2007-11-04 18:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by rebel with a cause 6 · 3 0

Look into the soldiers and sailors act. I am not sure about this application but there are laws that will protect your husband while he is awey on duty not sure if it will pertain to this case but since he is involved and they are as much his childeren as they are yours perhaps this would be yet more to use for a lawyer.

2007-11-04 22:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by hmeetis 4 · 0 0

Your parents cannot get protective custody just because you want to get your own apt. What aren't you saying? You have to be abusing or neglecting your kids for them to do that. If you don't have an attorney, you really need one.

2007-11-04 18:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by Diane 3 · 3 0

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