It became an issue that I cant stop thinking about it ;-( ? what do u people suggest?
2007-11-04 08:48:58 · 28 answers · asked by ben A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes.
2007-11-04 08:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 16⤋
Same here man!, 23 no gf, no sex, and it starts to build as an obsession, however I know I've not wasted my life (and don't consider ourselves as losers) because I've achieved more things than other people my age. However, it's time to take charge and get the "experience" we're "lacking". Then we will be winners. Btw I think part of the reason of my life-long singleness is that I've had very high standards for girls, and the problem is, the girls I like are taken or (for some reason I do not completely understand) want to stay single, and the ones that like me do not interest me!!
2007-11-05 17:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by AE 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Depends how you judge winners and losers. If its based on experience with the opposite sex, then yes you're a loser. Be sure to realise though that it's only one aspect of life; there are other things in life to succeed at apart from relationships.
Consider why you've never had a girlfriend, have you passed up opportunities in the past?
2007-11-04 16:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by sillywhiz32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! THAT IS UTTERLY UNTRUE!
Whether you've been in an intimate relationship DOES NOT determine whether you are a loser or winner.
Losers are those people who can't accept the fate they recieve and become extremely poor natured people.
Those things are fun to have but have MORE ESTEEM...I'm sure you have something good about you! Don't let the world's culture affect what you think of yourself!
*to all those people who called him a loser:
Please apologize, you have no right to call him that especially if you don't know him and if you think your being is based on having great relationships.
Honestly...
2007-11-04 16:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth W 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if your waiting until marriage then some girls and people can respect that so dont worry about what people say. when the time is right it will happen. people will say thats dumb and people will say your a loser but your not your waiting for love real love, and me personaly i can respect that. the girl thing get your self out there have some fun, theres probably a ton of girls that will think that you are a great person and over look that your a virgin, so dont worry about it k, best of luck
2007-11-04 16:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you haven't experienced sex at 23 doesn't make you a loser mate, it just means the right person hasn't come along yet, your time will come and when it does it will be even more special to you.
2007-11-04 17:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by jhordom 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's time to catch a wake up and smell the coffee. You are falling behind on the real good stuff in life. Being with a person to love and to hold. Nothing can beat that.
2007-11-04 16:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not at all!! you shouldn't rush anything! it'll happen don't just run out and have sex because you don't want to feel like a loser! it doesn't make you a loser because you haven't had sex or a gf you just need to meet some nice girls and take it slow believe me you'll be much happier
2007-11-04 16:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Its only forever not long at all 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You an not necessarily a loser.
You could be ultra particular.
You could be acutely focused on academics.
You could be gay.
You could be a Catholic Priest.
There are a number reasons and I have listed a few of the more obvious ones. If these don't apply and you want to date then it is going to be on you to do the work. If you are so inclined get off your azz and go DO something about the situation rather than sitting in front of a computer and whining.
2007-11-04 17:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO, you are in no way a loser andyou should not rush youslf to sex/hae a gf just because of your age you will meet the person right for you sooner or later but dont rush something you dont want to do :)
2007-11-04 16:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hey man, Im in a situation like you, but I already had sex. I dont have a girlfriend, but I had chances with a girl. Send me an email and we talk
2007-11-08 20:14:30 · answer #11 · answered by José A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋