I can't get over my ex... it's been seven months, and i'm only 17.?

Question

I had an awesome 11 month relationship, where everything was perfect. I was with the most attractive girl I'd ever met, and she was an amazing person too. I became so close with her that her parents and relatives treated me like family, and I was welcome at their house anytime. We had some awesome times together, and we made each other so freekin' happy.

One night in early April my ex got drunk and made out with another guy, and convinced herself that she wanted to be with him, and split up with me - totally out of the blue. She's now been dating him for over 6 months, and he's beaten me up 4 or 5 times.

My ex and I split up with me just over seven months ago, and I haven't spoken to her/seen her for about 3 months.... And I'm still driving myself crazy over her. I have tried to date 3 others since and I just can't get into anything, I totally freak out and have to break things off after about 24 hours of any new "relationship". Anyone got any suggestions of how I can get over her?

Answer 1

Sorry your a fool, really, your fooling yourself, and therefor your heart, SO your not going to be able to move-on from this. Really I mean you do this right here

"had an awesome 11 month relationship, where everything was perfect. I was with the most attractive girl I'd ever met, and she was an amazing person too. I became so close with her that her parents and relatives treated me like family, and I was welcome at their house anytime. We had some awesome times together, and we made each other so freekin' happy"

Then, Like you think were fools like you, you do this

"One night in early April my ex got drunk and made out with another guy, and convinced herself that she wanted to be with him, and split up with me - totally out of the blue. She's now been dating him for over 6 months, and he's beaten me up 4 or 5 times."

Somebody doesn't what to accept reality! Trust it wasn't an AMAZING!!!! 11 months, it doesn't work that way. Seems the romance blind you to the truth of the relaitonship which therefor led to your heart-breck, welcome to your own self created hell!!!! All on you buddy, until you destroy the fantasy you made about this relaitonship, your never going to accept the reality of another. So you need a great friend in your life, or a counsellor to help you breck thru the bs, to the nugget thats the actually truth here.....