theres this guy that i really reallly like.. and hes my boyfriend, and when hes angry.. he hits me ? but he says hes doing it
for "disapline" .. i did tell him to stop because he is physically abusing me.. but then like later on in the conversation, he would tell me to shut up. i should break up with him.. because thats what all my friends are telling me to do, but.. i want another option? if anyone has any
2007-11-04 08:41:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no way! why do you stick with this person???? he's abusing you, and he shouldn't be doing that. break up with him. that is the only solution. and if you don't feel comfortable doing that, go away somewhere and call him from there so he can't come get you.
2007-11-04 08:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lalilalila<3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, you can do it his way, shut up and take the beatings, otherwise life doesn't give you any other option, although death will, but that's a one way ticket, no changing your mind. I'm sure i'm telling you anything your friends haven't, but you don't know what pain is, unless you hang around longer. These guys look for girls like you, that's what makes you "special" in his eye's, girls who strike them as so pathetically needy, that they'll abuse themselves and look else where for answers, accept any excuses, in order to hold on to someone who never cared for them in the first place. In fact, he won't let you go that easy either, not because he loves you, but because to him it's a game, he knows if he tries enough, you'll come back a few more times, for the same treatment. You have to admit girls like that are hard to find....get your A** out of there while you still have one! If not for yourself, then know this, many of these guys have turned on the girls family and friends, bringing death and destruction, where and when least expected, how would you like to live with that?, because many have had to. Get out for the sake of everyone.
2007-11-04 17:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by ferochira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is physically abusing you, and knows he can get away with it because your not reacting, or breaking up with him. You should grab the phone, tell him it's over. You can't be in an abusive relationship like that! your friends are right, you deserve someone better for yourself, someone who will treat you right. So break up with him and don't EVER go back. Good luck, stay strong!
2007-11-04 16:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is hard abuse! You could tell your parents or someone that he is doing. That is the only other option I see. If I was a girl and someone was abusing me like that I would break up with him. But that is just me so. Hope he stops soon.
2007-11-04 16:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The minute a man hits you it's over. Period. It's either stay and get the crap kicked out of you, or leave and take care of yourself. Don't ever let a man hit you.
2007-11-04 16:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by britters621532 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont wanna leave him but you dont like being hit then just say "Please stop hitting me, everytime you do you destroying all the love I have for you" and see what if he does if it doesnt work then you need to get out of that releationship because if you dont then he will just think he can walk all over you and do what he wants to do to you and that will suck for you :)
2007-11-04 16:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must know in your heart that you need to get out of this situation. He says that it is discipline? How can you let him belittle you like that? I would RUN away from the relationship and never look back.
2007-11-04 16:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont mean to say this option again
he is crazy and needs help
break up with him
he probably has other problems and needs someone to hit all his angrer at
and he has no right 2 do thatt
u will soo find someone better i kno u will
good luck
im srry
2007-11-04 16:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by R K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know if you should break up with someone who hits you? Are you waiting for a permanent injury to occur? Would you rather he just killed you and got it over with?
If you are truly that weak of a person, then you deserve what you are getting.
2007-11-04 16:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Leave the guy, get help from the police if he keeps coming around and hitting you after you left him, and find somebody else.
2007-11-04 16:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by cadet_sam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋