I really love my girlfriend, but her friends are really annoying. When they're around, they talk about me like I'm not there and sometimes tell her why I'm no good, she never takes notice of what they say but it still annoys me greatly! What do I do?
2007-11-04 07:41:45 · 23 answers · asked by jaggernut 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just avoid them! If she gets mad, just tell her, "Hey, I'm going out with YOU, not THEM." How does she feel about YOUR mates? They might annoy her, eh? This happens all the time, so find a non-combative way to deal with it. Remember, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder!"
2007-11-04 07:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I def. does no longer believe your mate yet as indignant and your gf have been given approximately you asking her i could be slightly suspicious of her too. If there wasn't something happening there wasn't lots of a reason for an excellent combat. She could desire to've mentioned something like "yea, he's a flirt yet there is not any longer something to be troubled approximately". merely be careful and robust success!
2016-10-03 08:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by hilderbran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why it's called a "relationship" Dude! Some people you just can't relate to, so change your act, or just find another chick who digs you like you are! If she REALLY does dig you, She will be the one to tell her friends to f&&k off! It's an "us and them" kind of thing,ain't it? Love Sucks, that's why I recommend, LUST! It's got NO side effects like Love,and it's easier to take,when she leaves you! Worked for me,until I fell in love and got married! (but love can lead to marriage, and that means no more sex for life, It comes on slowly, but,it still ends up that way,Sucks don't it!)
2007-11-04 08:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by studdmuffynn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Communication is a key to a great relationship.
If it is bothering you, say so!
I think what the friends are doing is very disrespectful to you and your gf.
They are basically judging her on her pick of a partner.
She needs to understand that this is not acceptable.
Yes, women talk about men all the time, in particular, their spouses but do so in private!
2007-11-04 07:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly C 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lmaoo in front of you! wow witches with a capital B! talk to your girlfriend...tell her it bugs u! it sounds like you let her and her friends control u! DONT! Just stand up for urself next time they say something crappy about u in front of U tell them to F*** off! I know i would never let my best friends talk crap about my boyfriend (in front of him)...and even if they did i would still try to defend him...
2007-11-04 07:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anne<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just remember that she is one of them. (This will make a lot more sense to you if you ever break up.) They should show you some respect, atleast as a human. Speak to your girl, and tell her you can't be hang around them if they are going to be so disrespectful.
2007-11-04 07:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find some new friends to hang out with. When your other friend ask, What's the problem, tell her.
But remember, you can never have to many friends.
2007-11-04 07:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by amy68937 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my bf is in the same position right now and ur gf needs to tell them to stop let her know her friends are bothering u i didn't notice it until my bf said something but as soon as he did i set my friends straight
2007-11-04 07:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by andyraysbaby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When her friends are around go hang with your friends and you won't have to listen to them.
2007-11-04 07:52:10 · answer #9 · answered by Shooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship has it's good and bad. You deal. It wouldn't be any different with another girl. Teens are like that - they dis everyone.
2007-11-04 07:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋