Does God hate me because I leave the church 3 years ago?

Question

Since then, it seems that God doesnt care anymore about my life. (I'm saved and born again christian) Does He hear my prayers?

Answer 1

He doesn't hate you, He wants you back

Answer 2

If you don't have a relationship with God he doesn't have a relationship with you. If you wandered off then he will just wait for your heart to return. He's not going to track you down. It doesn't mean you lost your salvation but is the relationship suffering? What makes you say God doesn't care? If you are truly born again and truly saved you can't honestly think God hates you. If you do then you need to return to that day you thought you were born again and discuss the contract so to speak. GOOD LUCK & GOD BLESS!!

Answer 3

No. God isn't indignant with you. are you able to suspect that? Is it much less complicated to have faith that he's indignant than that's to have faith that his unconditional love and comprehensive adoration for each 2nd of your perfection makes it impossible for him to sense indignant with you? Why? because you're his baby, his co-writer, and he's yours and there is not any longer something you're able to do, be or say which will ever shake his love for you. in actuality that God has no judgement - what you do is your unfastened will and having given it to you, he won't in any respect take it away, such is his love and comprehend for you. in actuality which you will possibly be, do or have something you prefer - and that that's no longer purely allowed, that's extremely magnificent once you do! in case you shed your worry, and seem at each and everything you will see God, hiding in undeniable sight. he's everywhere, interior each and everything, he's the made and the unmade, the right here, there and the gap in between, ever increasing, the in the previous, the now and the after. he's in you and all around you. in case you elevate a stone you will locate him. puppy your cat and there he's. Be fearless and presume to ask him, start up a communicate which will bypass on continuously, and understand that God isn't different than for you, that his love is infinite, that he's wakeful, he's sentient, conscious of you and of your fears - which you prefer purely attain out, and all your worry will drain away, fleeing from the sunshine. it somewhat is the reality. are you able to suspect me? are you able to place your have confidence in yet another baby of God, only long adequate to be taught this one lesson, for which you have longed your total existence. enable my words elevate you, and experience instruct you, that there is not any longer something in God to worry - the superb promise, and that i promise it to you understanding which you will locate it authentic. enable me watch you fly! Love and lightweight.

Answer 4

Please read the story of the Prodigal Son. The son left his father, squandered all his goods, and began to feel that he had lost everything. He finally realizes that things were better with his father, so he decides to go back, this time as a servant and not a son.

But the father sees him coming a long way off and what does he do? Does he say, "That rotten, no-good son of mine! I hate him!" No, he runs to him and embraces him. He throws a party and invites the neighbors to come and rejoice.

Remember the story of the shepherd who left the ninety-nine to look for the one sheep that went astray. The story tells us that the angels in heaven rejoice over the one that repented and returned than over the ninety-nine that did not go astray.

No, GOD DOES NOT HATE YOU! Return to Him in peace and never leave Him again.

Answer 5

God never hates anybody.In fact He loves you.Human love may change .But God's love never.Go back to Him.


A Prodigal Son

Does that lamp still burn in my Father's house,
Which he kindled the night I went away?
I turned once beneath the cedar boughs,
And marked it gleam with a golden ray;
Did he think to light me home some day?

Hungry here with the crunching swine,
Hungry harvest have I to reap;
In a dream I count my Father's kine,
I hear the tinkling bells of his sheep,
I watch his lambs that browse and leap.

There is plenty of bread at home,
His servants have bread enough and to spare;
The purple wine-fat froths with foam,
Oil and spices make sweet the air,
While I perish hungry and bare.

Rich and blessed those servants, rather
Than I who see not my Father's face!
I will arise and go to my Father:—
"Fallen from sonship, beggared of grace,
Grant me, Father, a servant's place."

Answer 6

He does not hear your prayers and he doesn't give a crap what you think about it. You were right to leave the church in the first place. You need to care about your own life. Go and get what you want, don't just wish for it.

Answer 7

No, He doesn't hate you. I can relate to what you're saying. I left the church for a while as well thinking that I knew better and took my life into my own hands doing my own thing. I realized that after everything was taken from me, that I was NOT in God's will and turned back to Him. The Bible tells us that we serve a jealous God and He will not stand for us not putting Him first in our lives through worship and study of His word. What you are feeling now is that He wants you back. He wants you back into fellowship with Him and to go back to church and pray to Him. He will come back to you like He has to me. I will pray for you and good luck! Jesus loves you!!!! :-)

Answer 8

I personally don't believe in a vengeful God, so I don't think you're being punished or abandoned by a divine being. Look for other answers if your life isn't what you want it to be...things you can work on and maybe fix instead of feeling like Job or Sysyphus.

Answer 9

God is your church. You don't need a building to maintain your relationship with God. Once you learn His teachings you are set for life.

Answer 10

No, He doesn't hate You; He loves you and cares very much about your life.


Now, my question for you: Jesus calls us to give up our lives for Him, to be devoted followers of God. Are you there? (i'm not asking, "are you perfect?", but rather "are you following God?" ). I dont know where you're at right now, besides that you dont go to church, but you do pray. The praying part is a great thing. But I know what you mean: sometimes you just dont feel God. this happens to me sometimes too. I think that God lets us go through these times when we feel distanced from Him, to build our faith. That may be your problem. But it may be something else. God loves you and wants to draw near to you, but You have to give Him room to speak to your heart. Are you reading your Bible? Sometimes I find it very hard to actually sit down and read the Bible, but believe me, God works through His word in amazing ways. And another thing, if you ever find it hard to pray, I've found it very powerful to "pray" a psalm (basically, I pick a psalm and change the wording maybe slightly as I read it, and make it my prayer to God. You can also do this with the Lord's prayer=)). Never forget, the God is with you, whether you feel Him or not.

I WOULD encourage you to find a church where you can be connected to other Christians, and worship and learn about God. Its clear that this is a part of God's plan for us as His children. Try out different churches and pray that God will show you the right one.


so, read your Bible, keep praying, and find a church. I would also look for ways to serve God. A lot of time I feel closest to God when I'm serving. Pray about what God would have you do, and ask Him to make it entirely clear to you. Most of all, dont give up!! Last Spring I went through I time very similiar to what you're going through now. I felt distanced from God and part of me was very ready to give up. I was bored, and nothing was happening. But a kept on praying, grudgingly, "God, change me. Give me the desire to serve you. I cant do it, and I don't feel anything, but with you, all things are possible". And God answered that prayer in amazing ways this summer. You ask God to work in your life and I garentee He will!


Please, please, please, email me if you would like. I'd love to answer any questions, give you suggestions on what parts of the Bible to read, anything. I feel connected to you, because I can relate to a lot that you said. God got through to me anyways, and I know He will amaze you in ways you cant even imagine. So, if I can be a part of that in any way, I'd love to.

Last of all, two things for you to read:

1 John 2 and Ephesians 1: 3-end--verses 15-23 are my prayer for you.

God bless.

Answer 11

Just because you don't practice does not give ANYONE the reason to hate you. So no, that's not true at all. God would never hate you. Maybe hate doesn't even exist. Just strong dislike. Why would anyone create hate?