I know this guy for 7 months now. He is friendly, sweet and has a kind heart. I confessed my love to him 1 month ago and explained to me that he could not have a relationship with me because firstly, we are both young (I'm 14 and he's 17) and inexperienced to engage in such intimate relationships, secondly, he is graduating from school soon and may find a girl in his new instituition, thirdly, he is having a major examination which would determine which college he would enter and lastly, he just treats me as a good friend. I found the truth hard to digest at first because the way he treats me is different to how he does to other girls. At the end of our conversation, he told me to 'extinguish the feelings'. It is extremely tough and bet you guys know how hard it is. Everyday, I would try my best to forget about him but each time, if I see him in school or receive his messages, the feeling comes back and overwhelmes my heart. Should I follow my heart or listen to what he said?
2007-11-04 02:07:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To know how he treats me,
refer to my previous qn titled,
"Does he like me or not? (Personally I dont think so)?"
2007-11-04 02:14:58 · update #1
Listen to what he said, if its meant to be it will be. Right now isn't the right time for you guys to go out if he's going to be going off to college soon. And not to mention he's older than you and he could get into trouble if you guys get into a intimate relationship. Maybe you just need to move on and talk to other guys. Your young and it might seem like he's the only one for you right now, but soon you will see that this was just a crush and you'll be movin on to the next guy in no time. Trust me i thought i was in love with some guy when i was your age and now i can't even remeber the boys name...Lol just let him go and be grateful to have him as a friend.
2007-11-04 02:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often times lasses complain about perceived fickleness of males and the angst caused.
Here is a chap being apparently very honest, yet still not being accepted for it.
Accept his statements, value his integrity and move on.
2007-11-04 02:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by malancam55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief. You're 14! Why the bloody hell are you so lovestruck over one guy? Move on and enjoy dating different guys. You're too young to get caught up and distraught over only one guy who's leaving for college.
2007-11-04 02:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he didn't know how to break it to you but i think i may:
1. you are a kinda young for him
2. when he is in collage who knows what he might be doing
3. if you do wait collage is around 4 yrs thats a long time he might have secound thoughts and then you will have waited for nothing.
maybe you should find a friend around you age: 14-15
2007-11-04 02:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. mcwise guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-10 05:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what he said. Move on. He is going to be dating other people, why shouldn't you?
2007-11-04 02:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him and he will come back to u that time confess again
2007-11-04 02:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋