hi i know this girl and when she is drunk she usualy calls me atleast once or more around midnight at weekends. one time she was drunk she rang about 20 times but denied it was her, i wound her up so much, she told me to shh and said im an idiot, but it was her. i dont know why she ring me so much and denies it was her.
then yesterday she asked if i could do something for her but i was busy and explained i couldnt, then later even though i said nope she calls around 10pm when she said she was going drinking.
whenever i pickup it is always her friends on the phone speaking and they act daft lol. but that is also another thing i dont understand, why do her friends talk to me off her phone instead of her?? i ask why she calls on private but she denies it all the time.
2007-11-04 02:06:19 · 14 answers · asked by CoolD 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make her a copy of evenescence's song " you never call me when your sober" and give it to you.
maybe she will get the message.
good luck
2007-11-12 00:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's crushing pretty hard on you. And instead of fessing up and doing something about it, she feels more outgoing and gets the urge to call when she's drinking. When you're drinking, it takes the edge off. Maybe that's the whole thing-- she's not comfortable calling when she's sober.
BUT that doesn't make it ok for her to do it repeatedly. OR have her friends talk. OR deny it was even her. If I were you, just tell her you wouldn't have a problem with her calling, but you're kind of tired of her calling only when she's drinking. Say it gently, but firm enough to ler her know it's kind of getting old. Honestly, I think it's a little immature of her.
I say just be up front. Maybe she doesn't realize that it bothers you, especially since you seem to answer and be somewhat nice to her...even though you turn her down. Just explain that if she wants to call, to call when she's not out drunk with her friends. And not to the extreme of 20 times a night. Hopefully she'll get the picture. And if not, maybe you should start ignoring her calls all together?
2007-11-04 02:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by autumn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is desperate. Come on! Calling a guy drunk and having her friends talk to him on her phone?-immature. That should turn you off already. She is trying so hard to be cute and her calling you all the time and denying the obvious is pretty stalker-like. I don't think you should give her anymore attention so stop answering your phone unless you like lunatic women.
2007-11-04 02:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by crazychick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number and talk to her about her drinking and reason with her but her friends are alcohalics by the sound of this so get her away from them
2007-11-04 02:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would turn off my phone and ignore her...bc if you don't she'll think it's okay to keep doing it. If you get mad and hang-up she'll think it's funny and likes to make you mad. I know some ppl are immature but that's how you deal with ppl like that.
2007-11-04 02:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CallerID is your friend.
When she calls, Don't answer!
If you don't recognize the number, Don't answer!
If it's a private number, Don't answer!
If you don't answer often enough,
sooner or later she'll get the clue and stop calling.
2007-11-04 02:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by andybosik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your late for an emergency appointment at the Health clinic.
2007-11-04 02:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Normally i'd say Booty Call. Yeah son!
but this sounds F'd up. i'd steer clear and move on.
2007-11-04 02:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's what "janica" said.But if I said that I'd get kicked off yahoo answers!
2007-11-04 02:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has an interest in you, either as a more than friend, or as an enabler.
Were you intimate with her?
2007-11-04 02:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by Curly 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋