What would you do if you dated someone for 6 months, and found out...?

Question

...they were prostitutes a few years before you met them? No diseases, no other horrible secrets, just that in order to survive.

Answer 1

Ask yourself: What would I do to survive? Not all things in life come free and those things that do are not really free. A girl doesn't have to sell themselves outright to be called a prostitute, I know some that have prostituted themselves by getting married to a man for the sake of money, prestige, or something else. You don't have to be a street walker to be a prostitute, there are millions out there that are just as bad, only they do it legally.Never judge a person by their past.

Answer 2

Prostitute or escort? There is a world of difference, you know. The majority of escorts are paid for time they spend with a man and these dates take place in his home, office or hotel room. The "date" dances and models lingerie and leaves. Sometimes escorts do more... However, most do not. Even if this woman was a street hooker, she was surviving. Does she have little mouths who look at her with hungry little faces to feed? Was she in a position in which she could not work a 60+ hour week but required that sort of income due to aforementioned little mouths and a lack of support? God tells us not to judge. What does your heart tell you? Is she a good person? Is she a confirmed liar about many other things? Abusive? Unkind? Perhaps her choices would have been different if her situation had been different. You'd be surprised at what women sometimes think about doing in order to survive. And sometimes they're also responsible for the survival of their children, alone. Not everyone was given a helping hand or a silver spoon. She was obviously able to survive and get her life together as best she could. Judge her for what she's accomplished. Not for trusting you and confiding in you, her mistakes.

Answer 3

First of all, i would be sad, because i never taught that this would happen to me. I don't believe that prostitution is the answer to problems, but what happened in the pass, shall be the pass. I'll still love her, if she loves me, i will give her my best and hopefully that she doesn't do the things that she did before. Cause that will brake my heart even more. I believe in honesty. If she needs help? I'm there =)

Answer 4

If I liked them as a person, it would not really affect my relationship.

This person did something they are probably not proud of out of desperation. Now they have shared this information with you. So either you are supportive, or you dump them.

I've known girls who have slept with over 200 men by the age of 21. The fact that they didn't charge doesn't really alter what they did.

Answer 5

Make sure you both get tested and see the proof. Get over the past, if you love that person, it should not matter. Stay and support them, and be proud that they have overcome alot. Ask that they never do it again, and reassure them there are always options other than that.

Answer 6

you should ask them why they were a prostitute. if you like them a lot then it shoudlnt matter, because its in the past. if it was in order to survive then you should accept it because obviosly they needed it.

Answer 7

Old habits die hard. So I'll cut off the relationship because it'll come haunting back when the initial excitement of the relationship cools off.

Answer 8

I would dump them in a heart beat. I want to date people with goals, morals, values and a sense of ambition. Not someone who gives up and sells their own body because they are too lazy to go find a real job.

Answer 9

i like the girl thats never been touched so i can touch them.. not the one who has been with thousands