He said we were going to be together forever... I knew we weren't, but I didn't think he'd CHEAT on me... What makes a guy do such a f****d-up thing??? Apparently he didn't love me as much as he said he did. I'm about to give him a piece of my mind, and end it now.
But... What would make a guy cheat on someone?
2007-11-04 01:59:01 · 8 answers · asked by fanny bandits 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Opportunity plus desire plus either (lack of respect for you and/or your relationship) or (incapability of keeping his word).
Oh, and thinking he's smart enough to get away with it. This is the one they get wrong the most often.
2007-11-04 02:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl. You don't have to do anything for a man to cheat on you. I am starting believe, however, in this society, it is okay to swing or be polyogomous. Why?
1. Alot of men are cheating on their women who is doing everything in their power to make the relationship work and vice versa.
2. Men are becoming more and more demanding
3. Our hearts are being broken over and over again for various reasons and it takes a mental toll on you.
4. I personally,( if my relationship doesn't work out) would not be in a serious relationship with anyone until I am 30 (I am 27 right now).
Life is too short not to have fun and I am starting to realize this due to my relationship. Don't waste your time. Party or do what ever you do to have fun. If you need sex, call someone up and disgard of them when YOU'RE done. I know many would not agree with me. However, let's face it folks, 8 out of 10 relationships don't last anyway. Have fun. I think I'll be right behind you very soon:)
2007-11-04 02:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by cocolatecafe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just can't stay faithful to one women. I don't think there is really anything that will make them cheat. They may say the realtionship wasn't working or something along those lines, but if a man wants to cheat he will no matter what.
2007-11-04 02:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lovemykids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.Nagging
.Whining
.Bitching
.Complaining
.Needy
.Attention whore
.Cry too much
.Never shut up
.Tired of the same routine in general and in bed
.Wants more of a thrill
.Wants to see what else is out there
.He's tired of looking at you
.He found someone new and better
.He found someone else who treats him right or the way he wants to be treated
.He found a sugar mama
.The girl he's seeing is a skank
.He's a nympho and can't just be with one person
.He's an ******
.He has no regards for other people's feelings
.He thinks he's a god
*Oh the reasons...and there are so much more.
2007-11-04 02:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything....
He could be insecure
He might be bored
He might have done it because he thought you would not find out
He might have done it just because he could
My point here is don't blame yourself. It's not because she is prettier or wiser. It's because the man you are with is a selfish jerk. Get rid of him and find someone who will truly love you and treat you like the queen that you are.
2007-11-04 02:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by A M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you because the sex was better with someone else. Guys who like home cooking don't eat at restaurants!
2007-11-04 02:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by average joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving in to lustful temptation.
2007-11-04 02:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mr.Longrove 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many things...nagging...withholding sexual favors...mood swings...weight gain...you wouldn't believe 'ego boost' would you??
2007-11-04 02:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋