What's the point in having a BF or GF if not for sex? Hell, you can have friends and watch movies or go to the mall...
2007-11-04 01:42:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And, to all of you that don't think it's all about sex, try holding on to your significant other without it...the first girl to come along that WILL, gets him!!!
2007-11-04 01:50:05 · update #1
she just needs attention for her self-esteem.
2007-11-04 01:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by xxx 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just because you go out with someone doesn't mean you are going to get sex. Meaning dating doesn't mean you get sex.
I think the problem with people is they are not honest with their dates on what they want. Whether you are looking for someone to just have sex with, or whether you are looking for a relationship are two different things. Some guys that I have dated have lied just to get laid...I think if sex is just what someone is looking for, then, they need to spell that out clearly so that the other person doesn't get hurt. I have found that many people are too insecure to be totally honest for fear of rejection. And, sadly enough, when honesty is not there, somebody always gets hurt.
2007-11-04 18:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the culmination of a loving, trusting, longterm relationship. It is such a personal, totality of giving of oneself to another, that it should never be an act of coercion, force, or convenience.
Dating is a social experience that allows 2 people to enjoy each others' company, get to know one another, have fun, and perhaps cement a longterm relationship.
Dating is not an excuse to get sex. If you want sex, your partner may expect you to continue the relationship and not just be a one night stand. You must also be prepared to accept the responsibility of parenthood or the prospect of contracting an STD.
2007-11-04 10:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by westville sal 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So that you can build a relationship that is open and filled with trust, intimacy and commitment. Additionally, as a woman when the before mentioned components are there, the sex is that much better. You are free to express your sexual desires and be open to your man without reservation.
2007-11-04 09:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by kayanbe 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The chance of having a life together, being happy, spending time with the person you love. Everything is not always about sex
2007-11-04 09:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sense 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dating is for companionship and friendship on a different, often deeper level than a regular friend. just chill out homey if all you want is sex then why do you need a gf? think about it
2007-11-04 09:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by HcBasketball#15 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Those girls want someone to run interference for them until they find the guy that they'll eventually give it to...then, they can always remember him as their first. He'll be a rotten, blah, blah, blah; and you'll be that sucker(who got nothing except a hard-on!) they laugh about!
2007-11-04 10:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To find your Mate. Your Life-Partner.
The person to spend Your life-with.
When You keep these higher purposes
in mind,
delayed gratification becomes worth-it.
2007-11-04 09:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by andybosik 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Soulmate searching.
2007-11-04 09:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by Class 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're so shallow. No wonder you don't have a girlfriend!
2007-11-04 09:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by GucciGirl 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋