2007-11-03 20:11:41 · 11 answers · asked by Pocket Skater 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The best way would be to try to convince them that you're mature enough and have thought through your decision thoroughly and rationally.
Basically, don't act like a kid (or like an average 14-year-old) when you're trying to convince them. Give them rational reasons why you should be able to move in with your friend.
Convince them that you have really thought through all the possible situations, and address the concerns that they may bring up (they will probably bring up a lot of concerns) in a calm and mature manner.
Don't freak out no matter what (it will probably get really frustrating, after all), or you'll have convinced them that you really are too immature to have thought through your decision rationally.
2007-11-03 20:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by guest20060730 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can't. Get over it. You are still a child. Trust me when you are that age you can't wait to get out on your own, away from your parent, ect....but when you become an adult and have to go to work each and every day (it isn't like school) and pay bills each day of the week the same day over and over again then you will wish you were a kid again. Be a kid.
2007-11-04 00:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blood is thicker than water. i do no longer think of your mother and father show you how to progression in no count what. i understand they sound like the worst mother and father yet a sprint call to DSS might determine the grime difficulty. Are they beating you, no longer feeding you, molesting you? because of the fact those are actual subjects. enable me placed it to you like this. My cousin had a undesirable domicile difficulty to boot. She emancipated herself from her mother and father and moved in along with her BFF. enable's only say that lasted a 300 and sixty 5 days and that they are no longer speaking. acquaintances have blow ups, they warfare. And what happens once you and your buddy have a combat? who's component do you think of your acquaintances mother and father are going to take? What happens while they ask you to go out? What happens once you and your buddy can't stand one yet another. i understand you're saying she is your suited buddy yet acquaintances substitute and acquaintances have fights. a number of my "suited" acquaintances at 14 are no longer any further my acquaintances. I promise you that I additionally had quite a few acquaintances with WAAAAY worse dwelling situations than you. They each and each stayed with my kin for a whilst till issues have been given a sprint extra useful. yet in no way for 4 years such as you're speaking. you will possibly be able to desire to stay along with your loved ones, help with the cleansing up and care of your siblings. And if it gets insufferable, call DSS, consult with a instructor, etc. yet kin is continuously....
2016-10-14 23:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH....NO!!!! Stay where you are! You need the GUIDANCE of your PARENTS! That is why we HAVE parents and a believe it or not....social service .ugh...as unfair as it seems
I do know at times it seems our "Momma just dont get us"
My 10 and 3/4year old seems to be already 14. Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh!!!!!! She will be 11 in December and seems i just dont get her, and everything is HER fault and i BLAME her. I mean to tell you, the child is lazy! i dont make her do anything, she is in every activity imaginable and she does NOTHING~! her room is FILTHY and she is a HONOR student way above her level, 9th grade level in fact and just wants to PLAY as soon as her homework is done, and she tutors a 6 year old.
She wont clean her room, or help fold clothes, or load or unload dishes, or ANYTHING. not that i cook, but like cereal bowls and stuff
Arghhhhhhh! Seriously, though, she LOVES to cuddle with me on the couch, have me listen to her read , and say prayers with her....and sign off on her homework...i know she loves me but everything is always MY fault. And yet her dad is a DEADBEAT!!!
He tries to let on to the world he is all that, but he is a total jerk to me! always has been. i try my best not to show this to them, its hard at times....but hunii you really need the love of your momma!!! i have already been thru this with my OLDER tow daughters and YOU DO need each other!!! My oldest daughter left to go liver with her dad on her 13th bday because my new husband kicked her out, more or less. i should of right then and there LEFT his sorry butt.!
but my bad./ Now im payin. but try to stick it out, hunii. TRY!!! Maybe spend nights with your bff, but not LIVE there, hmm? and not only that?? do you know what a TREMENDOUS burden that is on the OTHER BFF momma??? IT IS, because i have done that, too.....
hugz, sweetie~!
2007-11-03 20:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there is any way to convince them to do
that. I know alot of kids might feel that way, but I don't think
any parents would go for it. Besides parents only have
your best interests at heart.
2007-11-03 20:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do you know what your getting at.your 14 and you want to be treated as an adult?if my parents allow my stubborness when i was young ,i probably end in the streets with my so called friends mugging strangers for the fun.
2007-11-03 20:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by honey 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First you have to convince us.
And we're likely to be a real hard sell.
2007-11-03 21:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by Irv S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
KEEP DREAMING...Because no matter how nice,or mean your parents are there is no way your going to convince them.
2007-11-03 20:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes...
You can wait 4 years until that makes sense, and then they're sure to go for it.
And if they don't, it won't matter.
2007-11-03 20:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You should listen to your parents.
2007-11-03 20:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by I Speak the Truth 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋