i feel like im wasting my life i have alot of talents but im always sad and confused?

Question

i god will help me
im going some tough times
i switched on and off antidepressents
and i feel worse sometimes
im going to consoling
and my mom is tired of worrying about me
i lost my big bro at 13
i dont' want to die at 22
he died when he was 21
life is hard but i know people have it was then me
sometimes i feel sorry for myself thats selfesh other times i get real depressed

man im tired and drained
i get headaches allot
and heart burn really bad
all i want to do is sleep not think about stuff

Answer 1

I have gone through depression also.I know you feel like your in a dark hole and you can't get out.I know that you only think negative thoughts.I know how you only want to sleep and not take care of yourself.This is all normal for depression.There is
a light at the end of the tunnel but right now you feel like you'll
never see it and that you'll always be like this.You will get better eventually .I know right now that you don't feel like doing anything and feel no joy.but you must hang in there.The way I got through it was I told myself I must just go through the
motions of life whether I feel like it or not.Just force yourself
to get up in the morning,take a shower,eat,go to work or
whatever you do each day.Just force yourself to go about
everyday life no matter how you feel and you will get better but
just remember it may take awhile to feel better.I went through
a few years of feeling this way and finally felt better.It will
get better for you and hopefully it won't take as long for you as it did me just go through the motions of life like I said and
I doubt your going to die at 22,thats just a negative thought
that comes from being depressed.I hope this helps you.Just
remember that your not alone in depression there's more
than you realize that suffer from this same thing.There are 5
kids in my immediate family and 4 of us have gone through
this depression at some point in our lives.Also you will find that some people around you will not understand what you
are going through if they haven't gone through it themselves.
They may feel that you can just get out of it if you just do
things that you enjoy and they can't understand how the joy
in life can just dissapear but it happens because of a
chemical imbalance in the brain and its not your fault that
you can't quickly change that by doing something fun when
nothing is fun.right now.Keep going through the motions of life
because thats just about all you can do right now and its ok.
God bless,J.P.

Answer 2

I've never been in depression, but I had a period in my life where I was really depressed. I used to doubt myself all the time and put myself down. I didn't know why I was on Earth. I used to wonder what difference it would make if I wasn't here. Maybe I was in depression, but I got support and everything from my friends which were all very helpful. I'm really sorry about your brother.....It must have been difficult for you, and it probably still is. My hobby is to read - if I go without reading, I go crazy. The only time I get to forget about everything (and I mean everything) is when I'm reading. It's like I'm taken to a totally different world, and there, I can feel the characters. It's really great, and if reading's one of your hobbies, maybe you should try reading? I like to jog, so I used to run around the park at least every other day. Well I stopped doing that once my homework load got heavy and stuff....But I plan to start running again. That's another time I get to forget about everything. I have to concentrate on running, or else I start breathing crazy and start to sprint.
I'm really sorry about your condition.....I don't know what I can do, (I'm only 13....) but I hope you know that there are people in the world who care about you. (Me! Me!)

Answer 3

Go check your heart. Make a Doctors appointment. Depression can make you feel this way.. or having heart problems might have the same effect..sleepy n all.. check your self.
There is no other way to live life, but as you choose to live it. So why not live it happy? why choose to drown your self in sorrow? No matter what you choose as positive choice.. your mother will no longer worry. Don't chose to take your own life because.. that wont only worry her.. she'd be left alone in life.. with allot of questions.. one of them.. blaming her self and questioning where did she go wrong.

Answer 4

I hear you. I use to sleep all day 10-16 hrs and still do alot. sleeping takes me to another world where i can rest and not stress out. mental illness of any type takes away alot of people's energy and make them achieve less than they can. it steals a person't time, and energy. i feel that sleeping was the only way to heal and not do something stupid i would regrett and i was right. al least for me i needed the rest emotionally and am getting better. it takes forever. you can go to therapy which is very expensive or you can learn all you can and help yourself.

Answer 5

Join a club, gym do something productive. Contact martial clubs etc. Do some voluntary work. All these will help get your self confidence back. And build your self esteem. x

Answer 6

Homeopathic Remedies for Anxiety / Panic Attacks / Stress / Depression(Bereavment) / Mood Swings (Totally safe, without any side effects or complications of any sort) :-

ANXIETY / PANIC ATTACKS & STRESS :-

Sudden with restlessness and fear of death, Panic Attacks, Aconite 30X or 200X,1/2 hourly (3 Doses)

Prolonged with periodic and panic attacks Arsenic Alb.200X, 4 hourly (3 Doses)

With fainting spells; profuse sweating; worse in the morning Sulphur 30X or 200X 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Makes patient walk fast; due to anticipation Argentum Nit 200X, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Worse lying in bed and closing the eyes Carbo Veg 30X or 200X, 4 hourly (6 Doses)

Anxiety aggravated by upward or downward motion; going in an elevator; worse till 11 P.M, Borax 200X or 1M, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxious about business even when seriously ill Bryonia Alba 200X 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Full of apprehensions in the evening Causticum 200X, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxiety and fears in the evening with restlessness and palpitation Calcarea Carb.200X or 1M, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxiety worse while lying still. Sad music ameliorates the complaints Manganum Acet 200X 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxiety due to fright, fear,exciting news; stage fright; worse while appearing for examination or interview etc Gelsemium 30X or 200X 3 hourly (6 Doses)

Mood Swings, Anxiety due to grief or shock in the subconscious mind Ignatia 200X or 1M, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxiety; better after eating Anacardium Or 30X, 4 hourly.

DEPRESSION & GRIEF(Bereavement) :-

Severe shock due to sudden death of loved ones; restlessness, anxiety and fear Aconite 200X. 10 min (3 Doses)

Prolonged mournings; cannot overcome the loss of loved ones and/or Mood Swings. Ignatia 1M or 10M, 6 hourly (3 Doses)

When the grief is in the conscious mind; patient weeps; does not like sympathy Natrum Mur.200X or 1M, 6 hourly (3 Doses)

For chronic grief and indignation Staphysagria 200X or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)

Depression with suicidal thoughts feeling of worthlessness, Aurum Met 30X, three times a day half hour before meals.


Take the remedy which is similar to your symptoms. No side effects or complications if taken as directed, please do not exceed the given dosage and under any circumstances do not try to mix any remedies and avoid Chocolates, Mints, Coffee, Red Meat, Alcoholic and Carbonated drinks, Spicy Rich Food while taking any Homeopathic remedies, and keep the medicines away from direct sunlight, heat strong smells and perfumes and do not store them in the fridge.
Curing without any side effects or Complications Thats the Beauty of Homeopathic Medicine (Cures Par Excellence)

Take Care and God Bless you.

Answer 7

SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE DEPRESSED, THE SYMPTOMS YOU DESCRIBED CAN BE A SIGN OF DEPRESSION. GO TO A DOCTOR AND ASK FOR HELP, WITH THE RIGHT MEDICINE AND THERAPY YOU CAN LIVE A PRODUCTIVE LIFE. GOOD LUCK, AND DON'T FORGET TO PRAY AND ASK FOR FORGIVENESS AND HELP FROM GOD.

Answer 8

You're still very young.You have time to set the path your life takes.Let your passion be your guide.Good luck

Answer 9

i was like that and i was diagnosed a manic depressant you can email whenever you want to talk i suggest you see a therapist because i may help alittle bit but i'm still not certified to help you as much as you might need