unhappy ,help please?

Question

iv been unhappy for quite some time and i realize its because life is unfulfilling and unchallenging for me ,i research many topics and im very inelligent and productive ,yet i find my self uncontent and unhappy .i dont know what to do

well im 14 im wayy ahead of my age group so nobody my age can relate to me .and iv had a few girlfiends butt never worked out (they wernt really smart enough )

Answer 1

i feel the same way nothing exciting ever happens why not grrr find a challenge in life my mato is late for the show but ready to go it means if im late for something it still could be excitng

Answer 2

Try and take the focus off yourself. You might try some volunteer work at a homeless shelter or a local animal shelter they can always use the help. You can visit senior centers they will love the company. Get involved with the world around you there are lots of people who can use a hand up or a kind person to talk to that could be you.

Don't be afraid to put yourself out there join a church they are always needing help with something and looking for volunteers and you will meet a whole group of new friends. Good luck.

Answer 3

Go to the different categories of yahoo answers. There are so many people needing advise. Challenge yourself to answer questions, better yet, be the best one selected. Then try to reach as high level as you can by answering a lot more.

Form friendships with both sexes. Smile, and people will think you're friendly and Might smile back.

Answer 4

Maybe you can find one of those places that can test you for what your interests are and what you'd be good at. I do know how you feel about not feeling fulfilled. Just don't get a job that's below your capabilities because you'll feel in the end that you wasted your life.

Answer 5

get a grip. You are too young to have experienced 1/1,000,000,000,000 nth of the things you can see, know, and explore in the world. Don't worry, when you least expect it , life can get more interesting than you want it to be. As to people being as "smart" as you are,; trust me, there are plenty of people males and females as smart as you and smarter. Don't limit yourself to only relating to people you deem your intellectual equal.

Answer 6

Intelligence has nothing to do with happiness. Most often, happy people are those who are persuing their passions. Find something you love to do and do it the best way you can. If love is your passion, find ways to show people you love them. If helping people is your passion, do all you can. If photography is your passion, take pictures of everything you see in the most beautiful way. If cooking is your passion, cook for friends and neighbors, and share recipes. The best way to be happy yourself is to make others happy. It's one of those contagious things.

Best luck to you [ :

Answer 7

find a friend that has the same interests as you and have engaging conversations on various topics with them. get some goals and try to fulfill those. take progressive steps career-wise. try something new.

Answer 8

maybe you need to work out - exercise will help a great deal.It is frustrating not knowing your purpose/calling, but you are 14 you have time, enjoy yourself... be thankful for every day you have.

Answer 9

What about a family?

Mental health info: www.nami.org

Maybe you need to take a sabbatical in Europe, or help build houses in Africa?

Answer 10

maybe you must have a reflection to yourself and with God, recreational activities, travel alone ( having your self a break), play jigsaw puzzle, sodoku, and find to yourself what is your mission in life and importance of other people surrounds you..............i think it will help you
or try to watch comedies.........comics...and video games............also make a poem,draw,paint,a make a unique joke.