I have a major crush on someone I dance with. We chat and dance together. this evening this person gave me her number and said if I wanted to go to another club and wanted a friendly face to see to call her.
Now I really like this person- trouble is a dance club is difficult to pick up signals as everyone is friendly and really nice to each other.
Am I reading to much into the fact that she has given me her number? I am worried that if I call her to ask her out that I could muck up things and miss out on dancing in the future because she could feel akward?
Any thoughts?!
2007-11-03 15:55:11 · 2 answers · asked by Tim B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say that isn't a big sign because in the salsa community, it is seen as a big social community - not a big dating community. Where I am from, you go salsa dancing to have fun and know that it is not a "meat market" so to speak. So yes - it can be hard to know if someone is interested.
If you want to see if she's interested, call her up, see if she's going out and then after you see her dancing, ask if you could call her for coffee. If she says yes - then you can go from there. If she says "no, let's just stick to dancing" then say "ok" and move on.
2007-11-05 06:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd say that's a huge clue if I ever saw one. The Salsa is cool, but I prefer the Washing Machine.
2007-11-04 00:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by oldschoolelf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋