It drives me nuts for boys to stare at them. Sometimes it's like my gf's dad, or my teachers, or even my priest. I swear to you... I do not wear clothes to show skin or be overly tight. But, I feel VERY self-conscious around most boys now.
2007-11-03 15:54:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, it'll be a problem for the rest of your life...
I have HUGE boobs(34EEE) and the rest of me is tall and skinny.. every guy I've ever met has stared at them, talked to them and tried to feel them when they thought I wasn't looking...
Sometimes I hook my finger under their chin and say" Hey I'm up here, they don't talk back..."
2007-11-03 16:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't sense stress to look good. that's not the there is this huge weight on my shoulders each and every 2nd of daily. even with the undeniable fact that, I do choose to look good and the reason at the back of that's actually adult men. i will carry out with women in wiped out, previous outfits with my hair a multitude and no makeup on. i might in no way seem as though that if there replaced right into a guy around. i've got considered the two genders make relaxing of those issues. No. I enormously lots am consistently on top of issues while it includes my visual attraction. I stay in wonderful condition, preserve myself, and oftentimes gown properly. So once I see that yet another lady is doing an identical element i do no longer think of something of it.
2016-10-14 23:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can totally relate. Can you imagine being a D by 10th grade? How about a double D by 12th?!??! I'm an adult now and I very rarely wear anything that's too revealing!
Simply put, folks are gonna look--men and women. And although that sucks, you have to accept the fact that decent folks will want to get to know you because of your great personality.
It's uncomfortable, so be prepared to kill 'em with your wit! Keep dressing in the ways that are comfortable for you and focus on advancing yourself educationally, artistically, etc.
You'll be fine..."big boobs" and all.
Good luck!
2007-11-03 15:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have big boobs..so i'll say no.
but my behind on the other hand...yes, they like to look :)
but i'm probably older than you, so i've lived with this body for awhile and i know how to handle guys who stare...it can be a very scary thing when you're young and you're body is growing things that weren't there before. You also don't know how to deal with the attention at first. Just take it in stride and tell those boys that they're being plain rude and to bugger off...but you can use other words that I can't say here ;)
2007-11-03 16:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by Scooby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah. that happens to me quite often.. I caught an old man that lives in my building staring at my boobs every time he looks up to talk to me. So I told him to stop doing that- in front of people.. and if he is around me and some of my friends, I'd say.. oh here comes someone who likes to look at my boobs, then I'd hope he doesn't plop his butt down near me to oogle.. I did a test on him once. My friend and I would be sitting outside in front of apartment building ( It's a high rise apartment place) and the old man sat next to me.. I wear loose clothings ( decent clothings- of course) and I leaned over, I caught him leaning over too!!, just to see it by the corner of his eyes. That did not make me happy.
2007-11-03 16:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by spunky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only does it happen, but it never stops, unless and until you get pissed off enough to embarrass them by calling their attention to their rude behavior, in front of other people.
I have screamed at the top of my lungs, "Stop looking at my boobs!"
I have waved my hand within inches of their eyes, snapped my fingers, and said, "My eyes are up here!"
And, I've said, "What the hell is wrong with your eyes?"
They're so flaming stupid they don't realize we see them doing it.
If it's a girlfriend's father, steer clear of her house. I once had a girlfriend's father grab at mine, when I was on my way to the bathroom.
If it's a teacher, go tell your guidance counselor.
If it's a priest, interrupt anything that's going on with "Our Father Who Art in Heaven ..."
It's your body, and it's in your control. Take the power that's yours and speak up when anyone behaves in a way that disrespects you. Report them, distract them, shame them ... or it'll never stop.
Believe me. I was middle-aged before I finally got so pissed off I wasn't going to have it any more. And, now I'm downright scary when it comes to men disrespecting me.
2007-11-03 16:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by teaser0311 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Guys stare at boobs 'cause they're always thinking that it'd be a great place to store the remote control (between 'em) when they want to drink their beer.
2007-11-03 16:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Special K 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
teachers....priest? maybe you just feel like they're looking at them when they're really not. boost your self confidence- and if you really do find someone staring, give them a dirty look. that should make them back off. don't worry about it too much! :)
2007-11-03 15:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's natural for guys to do that. But, you're right sometimes it does get a little too out of control.
2007-11-03 15:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man looking at girls body is not respectable in anyway,why spend so much time in the gym or trying on cloths if you get mad when we do look,and its the way they show it,they put it out there for us to look then get mad when we do its just another stupid girl mind lol jking
2007-11-03 16:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋