What should you do when your friend knows who you like but contiues to flirt with them?

Answer 1

Hello Precious,
Drop that friend like a hot tamale. Obviously she isn't truly your friend if she would do something knowing that it might hurt you.

Answer 2

It sounds like your "friend" thinks he/she is better than you and wants to compete. Your frind must like the other person also and think that maybe the other person won't be interested in you, but them more. The problem with us "friends" is that we hide our feelings sometimes. Sometimes, in this situation, you need to tell your friend what you think about the person, and do something about it. Let the person you are interested know too. I know it can be hard, especially if you are shy. You have to at least tell your other friend that continues to flirt that it hurts you when it happens. The point is, with all 3 of you being out in the open and truthfull, 2 of you will be happy. With all 3 of you beating around the bush, no one is. You have nothing to lose by being honest. If it is that the person you are interested in actually likes your friend more, than it just saved you alot of time and hurt between your good friend and you. Any sense?

Answer 3

Rather than making the problem worse, let me make an assumption. I'm going to assume that your friend is really just a very flirty person and that she isn't intentionally trying to ruin anything for you. I think you should try to confront her in a polite way and ask her to please tone it down.

Of course, if I'm wrong about my assumption, pull out the stops. Two wrongs may not make a right, but nothing tastes more sweet than revenge. Just keep it classy, lol.

Answer 4

Ignore their flirtation - The person is trying to get under your skin or is jealous that you want to spend time with the one you like instead of them. It is a childish play, do not fall for it,do not acknowledge it is happening. Be yourself with both your friend and the person you like. Maybe even let that person know you like them in that special way. Let me just say this - God hates a coward (I don't know if that's true, but it sounds good) - If you like this guy (I am assuming your a girl), tell him. If he likes you too things will work out for you - If he doesn't see you that way than move on. Ignore your friends attempt at blocking - It is her way of saying she will miss the time you two spend together becouse you spend it with him.
Be good and peace.

Answer 5

how long have you known the friend? has she been a really good friend in the past? if so then don't let a stupid crush get between you two cause believe me there'll be plenty more of those but only one truly good friend. now on the other hand if u just met her and she's flirtin with him then she probably likes him and wants him for herself. if thats the case ask yourself is he the crush that i could see my self having as a boyfriend? if the answer's yes confront her if its no then forget both of them and move the hell on. GOOD LUCK SISTER!

Answer 6

Kick her to the curb and treat her with a long handled spoon cuz she's not really your friend if she's doing that knowing that you like him...You called dibs! It'd be different if he chose her over you, but she's deliberately going after him, and in your face, which is blantantly disrespectful to you as her so-called friend. Dump her, but still be polite to her. Just don't hang out with her or go anywhere with her, or talk long to her over the phone, or tell her any of your personal business. Or discuss any of your personal business with anyone who might discuss it with her. Give her the boot!

Answer 7

Return the favor. Find out who they like and flirt with them. If not flirt with their brothers or sister. To really annoy them talk about their family members in a sexual way.

Answer 8

Well if your so called "friend" knows who you have a crush on and she is flirting with this boy she isnt a very ture friend. If you like him that much or if you think oyur friendship is more important then a boy talk to your frined or just go talk to him...and say " hey, umm well my friend flirts with you and well i like you and she knows it" then he could talk to her for you. Good Luck!

Answer 9

Confront them about it, and talk to them on how you are feeling. If they're a real friend they would stop flirting and understand how you're feeling.

Answer 10

Remember the old adage "...with friends like that, you don't need enemies?" Well, in my opinion it's very applicable here. Some friend. Sounds like you might be better off without that one.