My boyfriend told me he'd be online at 7 or 8. It's past 9:30. He's at a party...and I'm worried about it...why is he so late? I hope he's not in trouble somehow, or hurt. Or cheating on me. Should I be worried about this?
2007-11-03 14:35:03 · 38 answers · asked by dmbgirlie93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be anything...Either you trust him or you don't. Simple as that
2007-11-03 14:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a history of cheating or is someone you just can't trust FULLY.. then yes, you should be worrying. If he's a nice guy, though, and is having just a party splurge.. don't worry about it.
If anything, when he does get back and he's sober.. you can always sit down and have a talk with him.
=) Hope to have helped!
2007-11-03 14:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by hardxcoregamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetheart,
I wouldn't worry too much because maybe he just got carried away with the time. You might just want to relax. As long as he calls you as soon as the party is over it'll be fine. Oh and sweetie, don't think negatively. Home is where the heart is, he won't cheat on you if he truly does love you.
2007-11-03 14:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous_898 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out maybe at like 11, 12, 1 , 2 o clock. I mean what kinda party is over at 8?
2007-11-03 14:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys will be boys. And hanging out with the boys can be a full night time job. Don't worry overly. Let things happen the way they are meant to. And don't jump him the moment he's on line. Ask him why he's so late, then let it go.
2007-11-03 14:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait and see what the excuse is. Don't jump to conclusions. Give him the benefit of the doubt. If he was delayed for some reason and it is a good excuse, so be it. If he comes up waith a lame excuse, he is probably cheating and it is time for you to move on. Good Luck.
2007-11-03 14:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mulligan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just have lost track of time. You know how it is sometimes.....unless you know there is a reason to be worried about cheating, don't consider cheating. I would be more apt to think he is having fun and not watching the clock.
2007-11-03 14:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what type of person he is.
Is he a 'go with the flow' person?
Is it a party that he can easily get caught ought up in?
If your really worried, maybe his friend might know what's up.
2007-11-03 14:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by saberfang_64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "shouldn't" worry about it but it's a natural thing. it's only an hour and a half late. i've been cooped up in parties and lost track of time easily. so don't make any harsh and negative decisions yet.
2007-11-03 14:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by yepo_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move away from the computer and go out your self, He's a big boy and will call you. But when he does, you will be out and about and let him worry a little. I hate games but when you step in the big leagues be prepared to play.
2007-11-03 14:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by ladilove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he is probably just late getting back from the party and he lost track of time. He should call you, sweetie. If he truly loves you he won't cheat on you.
2007-11-03 14:39:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋