my friend is fourteen years ols and she was messing around with her boyfriend, and they had sex. ten days later she was throwing up like crazy! she ran away from home, and had abortion now she has really bad stomaches. i think it was from the abortion.how could i help her?
2007-11-03 12:52:35 · 7 answers · asked by KiARa vELasQUEz 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Unfortunately, your friend has to live with the consequences of her actions.
If she is really sick, I would convince her to see a doctor for a check up. There could have been complications, especially since she is sooo young.
2007-11-03 12:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by ToniSB 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't think they're gonna get pregnant..its not going to happen to them and at the time having sex just feels good...so what is the worst that could happen? So she gets pregnant and that IS the worst possible case and the dude probably could care less...so her life and the baby's life is all up to her and she is only 14...that is a lot for a 14 year old to have to live with...so the easiest solution is abortion...her problem is gone...forever. Hopefully, she will learn from this and bring along protection next time she decides to have sex.
2007-11-03 20:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by lahockeyg 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She needs some support and some good advice about birth control. She made a careless mistake and decided that the best solution was an abortion. If she is having medical problems, it could be complications from the procedure. She needs to get a check up with her Ob-GYN and have him prescribe some type of birth control. Remind her that STD's are dangerous but can be prevented with condoms.
2007-11-03 20:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Diane M 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cuz aparently the invention of the condom is still too confusing for people.
2007-11-03 23:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by *~*C*~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well she should wear a condom. its her fault! dont feel guilty...abortion which i believe is wrong has its consequences not only with god but they could get hurt!
2007-11-03 20:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie♥ 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
B/c they're selfish!!!!! U can't help her. That's her problem. I hope u just watch & learn not to be like her.
2007-11-03 20:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
SIMPLE- MEN STICK IT ANYTHING TIGHT THAT MOVES AND WOMEN HAVE NO CONCEPT THAT THEY HAVE TO CARRY FOR 9 MONTHS AND 18 YRS. SO WOMEN DON'T USE CONDOMS AND MEN RUN OFF--- TODAY NOONE CARES EXCEPT FOR GETTING OFF....WHEN PEOPLE START TO THINK ABOUT CONSEQUENCES..THEN THINGS WILL CHANGE...
2007-11-03 19:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋