I BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 1 1/2 YRS AND WE ARE ALWAYS FIGHTING. WE LOVE EACHOTHER BUT SOMETIMES IT SEEMS LIKE WE HATE EACHOTHER. WE SEEM TO GIVE EVERYTHING BUT NEITHER OF US ARE GETTING ANYTHING IN RETURN. ITS A VERY HOSTILE RELATIONSHIP. SOMETIMES WE GET OUT OF IT BUT BEFORE YOU KNOW IT WERE ALREDY BACK IN IT. PLZ HELP. WHAT IF EXPLAINED IS NOTHING COMPARE TO WHAT IM GOING THROUGH ITS FAR MORE COMPLICATED. PLZ GIVE ME ADVICE.
2007-11-03 09:35:25 · 5 answers · asked by garcia_556 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a "I hate you, but don't leave me" relationship. Not healthy at all. I was in one myself. Eventually I had to leave, that was the only way I could keep my sanity.
Passion is the only foundation you have in this one.
2007-11-03 09:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit and talk together to see whether you should be together or not. If it is a hostile relationship it could be that both of you have reasons to want to be in charge of the other and it is like two dogs fighting over a bone rather than two people coming together to form one unit against the world.
Perhaps you both have a bit of self esteem problems so don't move on with someone new but keep falling back into what is safe for you, a relationship that has survived the fights and periods of making up. you need to set up a period of time when you both go out with others and see then if you want to get back together and in the meantime do things and read things to raise your self esteem. Try reading as a man thinketh for example. You are both just making each other miserable now and there may be someone better for both of you once you get past the break-up or with by talking to each other you may be able to iron out your differences. Good luck to you either way.
2007-11-03 09:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take a break see other people ... or maybe break up even cause you both are wasteing ur time and you need to be with someone that makes u happy not upset ... i don't care about the make up Sex k you need to find a health relationship where you can get along more often and understand eachother life is to short and stressful as it is!
2007-11-03 09:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jeep1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave and don't go back.
2007-11-03 09:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like sex
2007-11-03 09:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋