They always give me there business cards and leave a 5 in the tip cup. What is a nice way to say no.
2007-11-03 09:00:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You are probably very attractive and classy. Your customers notice this and are impressed with the way that you carry yourself. It is flattering, I'm sure, but not all the time.
If you want to let down the nice guys...easy, tell the truth.
"Thank you for thinking so highly of me, I'm flattered". I am seeing someone that is kind of special, but thank you for asking. (Then slowly, return to work)
This is a soft decline and won't put anyone on the defensive. You just told him that you are seeing someone special, that could be God on Sunday, if you want to get technical.
2007-11-03 09:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by joe_on_drums 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to say no. A lot of guys just enjoy the act of flirting. I'm not saying you have to say yes, or do anything, just understand some flirting is probably going to come with the territory of the job that you have, whether you like it or not. If someone gets a little more aggresive and wants to ask you out, just say you are seeing someone at the moment, and leave it at that.
2007-11-03 09:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by grouch2111 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As crazy as it sounds if u need the money what is wrong with a lil harmless flirting? Only if they start to come on to strong than you need to tell them to step back. Other than that just take the tip and be nice.
2007-11-03 09:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by Aniya's Mommy 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and walk away. Ignore them if they try to hit on you. Just do your job, get good tips and just go on your way. That should give them a hint. Let them leave big tips. That part would not bother me. :)
2007-11-03 09:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by just julie 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I suppose the easiest way is to say that you are seeing someone already. The honest way would be simply to say you are flattered by the attention, but not interested.
2007-11-03 09:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by mcq316 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
in case you ruin your acceptance by being nasty to a pair adult males, then many different adult males could no longer intend to make friends with you. you are able to finally end up being on my own this way. If I see some lady being nasty to a guy unnecessarily, then stay faraway from her I easily will. simply by fact i could be troubled that she could manage me this way too.
2016-10-03 06:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by contino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These guys are jackasses. They know a girl working retail has to be polite, and they are a bunch of loser dorks who never have women act friendly to them normally. So some poor lady working retail is nice to them because it's her ******* job and they jump on it as a chance to bother a pretty girl.
2007-11-03 09:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I bought a nice fake wedding ring. It works like a charm.
2007-11-03 09:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by Debbie Queen of All ♥ 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
yes, just act nice. when they actually ask you out or for your number, that's when you say you're seeing someone.
2007-11-03 09:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by Lo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop dressing like a whore. Wear more modest clothing (seriously).
2007-11-03 17:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋