ok. well my (almost) bf likes to look/stare deeply into my eyes...its really sweet and all, but ive told him it makes me blush, and that makes him do it even more.! what should i do when he does this?? thank u SSSSOOOO MMUUCCHH!!!!!
2007-11-03 08:25:40 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should i look back @ him?
2007-11-03 08:41:46 · update #1
Next time he does this, stare not into his eyes, but find a blemish on his face and focus on it. After about a minute, tell him he has a zit the size of delaware on his face.
He will stop.
If a guy continues to engage in behavior you do not like, then he is doing it to empower himself.
Take him down a notch and he will stop. It will take a good embarrassment.
Where did he learn this? From behavior of previous GFs. If you are the 1st, then he is enamored with you and you should turn it to your advantage.
2007-11-09 23:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by Christmas Light Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, blushing is something you really can't get rid of! There are ways to calm yourself down... you can breathe in deeply and exhale slowly for about 30 seconds to lower your blood pressure and relax. Obviously, this would look weird if you're in front of him. I would say that it's cute! My boyfriend is pretty shy and I think it's adorable when he blushes.
I am a big blusher myself. Not so much anymore because I'm much more extroverted now than ever... but when I'm embarrassed, I get VERY red. I hated it! I just learned to deal with it. The more you stress out about and think about it, the more you'll blush. Just try to push it aside as best you can.
2007-11-03 08:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by Cochy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's doing it to get a reaction from you cause he obviously finds it cute. Next time he does it just let him without making a fuss - he'll soon get bored.
2007-11-03 08:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by towninthemorning 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he thinks its cute!
my bf does same thing and i have gotten usta it...
all in good time...
giggle and look back at him if you want
2007-11-03 08:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋