My last bf is getting married to one of my gf's older sisters. He got her pregnant before he's headed to the marines. My girlfriend says it's ok for me to come because she invited me, but she admits her sister doesn't want me around her fiancee. I'm the one that broke up with him because he wouldn't use protection. Go figure. Anyway, what would you do? I like going to weddings.
2007-11-03 08:09:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Don't go... How would you feel if your husband to be's ex showed up at your wedding? Especially if you already know she doesn't want you there.
Plan an outing with your gf and other friends to celebrate the fact that you are not pregnant or getting married.. a true bachelorette party. (Not at the same time as the wedding obviously bc of the sister thing).
2007-11-03 08:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay at home and let these two have a lovely wedding. You have no business being there and invitations are NOT issued by sisters...only by the couple who are getting married. Grow up and move on.
2007-11-03 17:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by bevrossg 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't go. You are hoping that your presence will cause the groom and bride discomfort. You think you are being cute with this question.
It doesn't matter that your girlfriend invited you, she isn't the host, is she? Did you get an actual invitation, a paper one in the mail; or did she just say you can come?
Don't be stupid. Get a life and move on, your ex bf has.
2007-11-03 16:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't go. The bride and the groom do not need the stress of facing the ex on their big day. It's not your GF's wedding. If the sister doesn't want you to go, please respect that. that's probably the best gift you could give them.
2007-11-03 19:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Asked and Answered 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
me personally i would not go unless i was asked by the bride and groom because it is there day and they might not want to remember there past because they are looking forward to there future if my best friend had invited her sister to my wedding to my DH i would have been more than annoyed with her because i would not have wanted my ex last girlfriend to attend i didn't mind one of his previous gf because they are good friends but defiantly not his last ex gf so if i was you i would stay away unless you get asked by the actual bride and groom
2007-11-03 15:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by fiona 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think you'd be the better person if you just let this one go. She's already dealing with pregnancy hormones, a husband who's shipping out, etc. If you need an extra wedding to go to, you can come to mine ;)
2007-11-03 20:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by mellowyellow5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If any one feels uneasy by yr presence better leave that place.It is the bride who fears of u. Let her be happy, atleast on her wedding day.
2007-11-03 15:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The wedding isn't about your GF, it's about the bride and the groom. You should respect the bride's wishes and not go. Going would look tacky and desperate on your behalf.
2007-11-03 15:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda I 5 · 8⤊ 1⤋
if you think that being there may cause a problem for either the bride or the groom then you shouldnt go.you dont want to take anything away from there day.its not for you to judge their relationship...maybe you should talk to them and see if they are comfortable with you being there
2007-11-03 16:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by trinigyal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Attend the wedding. When you attend the reception, be nice when you give congratulations to the couple. Keep derogatory and inflamatory remarks to yourself or stay at home or better yet, do not attend the reception.
2007-11-03 15:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by guy 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋