Why have many christians have had sex before marriage?

Question

The church goers who got a date then commits fornication.

I love the excuse that Jesus died for us. Excuse me Jesus didn't die so you could carry on comitting freely willful sin.

Answer 1

Because they are talking the talk but not walking the walk. Many are only Christians in name but not in deed. Jesus will say to MANY,( not just a few) I never knew you.....

Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity. Matthew 7:22-23

Repent ye carnal and backslidden Christians, come back to Christ and walk the walk.

Answer 2

Well sometimes people have sex because they have a misunderstanding of the word of God. The Bible talks about grace and mercy, but many people don't know Hebrews 10:26 26If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left,
I have written an informative article on other reasons why people don't wait. You can read it here: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/274229/why_most_dont_wait_until_marriage_to.html

Answer 3

because many christians do not know how to stay true to their faith...if you ask me, there arent very many real christians left in the world, just a bunch of people acting out to fit in. if you ask me, to be a christian it is not enough that you simply say 'hey, theres a god and jesus was his son', you have to live it as well...most of the people that say that dont really believe it anyways....and most of all, most christians are hypocrites

Answer 4

The Bible tells us all very clearly that we are all sinners.

The neat thing is how many Christians don't have sex before marriage.

The neat thing is that Jesus can save teenagers before they active sexually and that Jesus can help them arrive on their wedding day as virgins.

Pastor Art

Answer 5

When each of us first sinned our eyes opened or we began to live outside of God's Spirit in which our eyes were closed, in the awareness of good of evil, which opened us up to Satan, who because he caused the first man and woman to die this kind of death from God, was given over to existing in this kind or behavior, called death because it results in death, which includes every behavior that is contrary to how God created mankind to behave.
Paul explained that believers that have sex before marriage are doing what they know better than to do in every case, but that it is not they who are doing it, after knowing better than to do it, but rather it is this sin habit in them. In other words they learned or aquired this behavior before they were saved, which today is from businesses who are exploiting sexuality for profits, and after they believed in Jesus and became aware that sex before marriage is wrong, they continue to do it because the habit is still in their flesh. Because of deeper mental problems which draws individuals to sexual activities as a source of temporary relief they come to love sex, which makes it harder to cease, even after believing in Jesus, and becoming aware that this is wrong.
Jesus died and arose from the dead to redeem all of us from all kinds of behavior that He did not create us to committ and from remaining in this state, with the full knowledge that we could have been saved from it, forever in the lake of fire.
John 3:16   “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.

Answer 6

I have to say, most of the really hot women I've had in bed identified themselves as Christians. I don't know how they reconciled this with their beliefs and I didn't ask.

Answer 7

i should know cause my parents are Christians , but they have not told me about that kinda stuff yet . mom says it personnel but i intend to find out. maybe Christians do that cause they can't ignore there temptation . (lol) or maybe they just do that cause they think its the right thing to do.

Answer 8

To ascertain whether it would be the same after marriage too!

Answer 9

Free will.

Answer 10

All people, Christian or not, are sinners. Everyone makes poor choices.