2007-11-02 23:16:42 · 21 answers · asked by trevor v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Be honest - if you never want to marry her - tell her now, and let her go, so that she can find someone else
2007-11-03 05:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean not get married ever, or just yet?
If it is just get let her know that you are not ready. You want to marry, but need more time to get in a better place financially/mature/live life a bit/ finish school etc.
If you don't want to marry ever you need to tell her that straight out. Understand they it may not be something you want to experience in life, but she might consider it one of her important life experiences. If this is the case perhaps it is better to break up rather than lead her on.
2007-11-03 05:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by Stiffler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are your reasons for not wanting to get married? Feel like you are too young? Not financially able to? Sit her down and talk to her. If you do want to marry her someday (honestly) then tell her that and then your reasons for waiting. How long has she made this known to you? Maybe a lot of her friends are getting married and engaged and that's why she wants to. Or she feels like you are the one and wants to marry you. Whatever you and her reasons are, just talk to her calmly and try to talk it all out. Good luck.
2007-11-03 17:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by Wishing on a Dream 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and give her the option to end the relationship. It is not fair to her to string her along when she wants to get married and have a family. I think it is very selfish of you to continue the relationship.
2007-11-03 03:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You must have strong reason for that.
If you want to be honest and fair tell her which are your real feelings. You like your life just like is right now you do not want major changes in your life and you are not ready for a commitment like that.
When you talk to her make sure that she understands that you have nothing against her it is just you and not her. Let her now she is not guilty of your decision
2007-11-02 23:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Helena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldn't get married unless the both of you want to 100%. don't get into it just because that's what she wants. that's why marriages are failing, it's because people just rush into and aren't sure about it. make sure that it's what you want and that it's what she wants. if you aren't ready yet, explain it to her and tell her that you just need some more time to figure it out. she should understand.
2007-11-02 23:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny Boy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you never ever want to get married then you need to do the right thing and let her go, its not fair on her to keep her hanging for somehitng that is never going to happen. this will split you up eventually. do the manly thing and end it so that she canget on with her life and find someone who wants what she wants
2007-11-03 00:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by LBB 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know what to do, then you don't need to get married.
2007-11-03 17:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by Woods 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground. If either party does not really want to get married they should not be coerced into it.
2007-11-03 00:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by D B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her u dont want to get married yet and u need somemore time
2007-11-02 23:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋