so i have this cousin who drinks..smokes ...steals..everything in the book he doesnt work or got to skool..he beats his grilfriend and he has two kids and hes only 19..and he has his own room in the house and he dont pay rent im tired of it i pay rent and share a room with 2 people.im 21 i know i should get out but i almost did and my mom got sick i tried convincing my dad to give me that room and ill pay rent im lost i work graduated and going to school..
2007-11-02 20:24:46 · 7 answers · asked by **PrinCess** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like your Mom needs you and i can understand why you'd feel stuck. I personally think your Mom should be your number one priority. If she needs you, maybe you should have a serious talk with your parents.... What's the deal with your cousin? If he's causing problems, shouldn't HE be the one to go? Leave the free-loader to fend for himself... sounds like he needs a good kick in the "butt"! I know he's your cousin and all but sometimes tough love is the best answer.
2007-11-02 20:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Angie_B3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so u want to leave but u feel obligated to care for your mother, it's natural. i have feelings like this all the time. the best thing to do is sit down and talk, even if u move out that doesn't mean u wouldnt be able to help them, u can do lots of things and if its financial problems, then maybe u can help a bit when u got some extra cash. i know moving out is hard because im stuck deciding right now also, but yours will be easier since im moving out of state for my own social life.
2007-11-03 04:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Venus_Infers543 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. Simple answer. Take the two people you share a room with and make them roomates in your own apartment.
2007-11-03 07:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out. Seriously. It will be a pain for the first few months but in the end will be one of the best choices you've ever made.
2007-11-03 03:28:23 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sniffs* what a hard life... u should really set ur cuz straight. i hope ur mother gets better though. it must be sad living like that having to pay for rent when ur cuz dont do no shyt. siiigh good luck with ur family but not to ur cuz-.-...
2007-11-03 15:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your house seems over-crowded. You'd probably be happier moving out (if it's affordable for you).
2007-11-03 03:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave. It doesn't sound like this is the type of environment that is good for you.
2007-11-03 03:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋