Am i too picky when boys ask me out??

Question

ok im in middle skool, im 12 in 7th grade, and ive had many boys ask me out but i would allways rejects them

they are either

-too ugly
-bad personality
-less talent


my type of guy is

-good fashion
-good personality
-has many kool talents
-funny
-hella hot
-tall
-nice

etc.

but da boys arent any of those

do u think im picky?

wat can i do to get a bf

oh and if ya gonna reply to dis dont say i am too young, **** i aint lik da other girls dat r younger den mii bii hookin up out dere, i already had a bf once, and hell no i aint shallow, dey understand and still friends wit mii

Answer 1

ok you kinda helped me with my dance problem so I am in middle school to and in grade 7 and I don`t think your to young and I don`t think your picky I am the same way if its not what I want then why bother You just end up dumping them right away if you don`t really really like the person.

Answer 2

> what can i do to get a bf?

Well, you put an awful lot of effort into rejecting them. If you don't work so hard at rejecting them, you might accept one.

If he's ugly, is he friendly and generous? If he has less talent (whatever that means), will he help you with your homework or your rock-climbing? Is "bad" personality just a matter of who he's with or what's bothering him?

Are you absolutely perfect in every way? If so, that means you tolerate the flaws of us lesser beings. Perhaps there is some little thing about you that someone, somewhere might not like - just hypothetically, arrogance. If that could possibly be true, then maybe you could learn the tolerance that you hope to receive.

Otherwise, you and your perfection will spend a lot of time alone.

Answer 3

First off you are not to picky. If you have an idea stick to it because you will be happier. Are you too shallow and that's why you look for someone being hella hot, maybe. But when you are only 12 and dont drive what do you do with a BF? Be a kid and get out and play and quite worrying about a BF!

Answer 4

I choose to answer this question then read that you are only 12. So the only answer I have for you is, you are way too young to be dating. That is if we have the same definition of dating. You are to young to be alone with any boy good fashion or no fashion. Why not wait at least until you are 16. With a bit more maturity you may find yourself looking for a boy with way better qualities than good fashion and 'kool' talents.

Answer 5

I been through it trust me I'm in 8th grade
I say you r being picky but at least its coming from someone you dont know right
u should just go out with the guy you dont know what your missing!
unless you have a real reason to not like him like..
hes REALLY but ugly
or a jerk
but your saying no to quickly before you get a chance to know the guy maybe he is talented your just looking at his appearence instead of him, get it
well I hope I helped good luck ; )

Answer 6

well i am in the same grade u r and i have a boyfriend and well i gave him a chance and we have been going out for 3 weeks now all u have to do if u dont like them then there is not a guy for u right at the moment but when u see a hot guy just see how he acts around u then u will know that it is him it could be one of your friends (boys not girls)

Answer 7

well i think that you are either expecting way to much of these guys, OR that u rlly like someone but u just know that subconciously so u reject ppl until u find tht one person. the human mind works in strange ways. deep down u may just be waiting for the right guy and sometimes you have o get to know ppl b4 u can decide. so if someone asks u for a date try it out... they may grow on u. either way ur only 12 and have soo much time to figure out the cycle of guys. good luck

Answer 8

Ok so maybe you won't find a guy with all of these qualties. You might be a little bit too picky if you automatically say no to a guy that doesn't have ALL of theses things. For instance, if he is supppper nice but isn't that tall. I would go for it. Just some girl-to-girl suggestions.

Answer 9

well, of course you shouldn't want to go out with a guy with a bad personality. you have to like his personality.

if a guys personality doesn't shine through his appearence then hes not good enough.
but if hes really nice, just not super hot. i would suggest going out with him

with the talent thing, that hasn't been a very big issure of mine.

i think that you should have those standards in guys, but not expect them to have alllll of them. if they have a few then thats great. if tehy have none things probably wont work out between you guys.

ps. your in sventh grade, in the long run the boyfriends you have now wont affect your life later.

hope i helped :)

Answer 10

no youre not too picky...or perhaps you are. and if so who cares thats great! the last thing you should do is settle because you feel like you "need" a boyfirend. its awesome that you have enough self worth to not just settle. Dont stress over the fact that you have taste. and you dont need a boyfriend. it will come in time middle school is a small selection. h.s will be where you have all your crushes.