Why does it feel just as good if not better than "post-marital" sex?
Answers please from those who have experienced both..
2007-11-02 16:23:18 · 18 answers · asked by {:3) 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
sorry, typo with "before"
2007-11-02 16:26:07 · update #1
See my first edit. Thank you!
2007-11-02 16:27:07 · update #2
I think premarital and postmartial sex is great as long as you enjoy it.
2007-11-02 16:30:02 · update #3
I'm sure you mean premartial sex is wrong..
well I guess because the thrill of having sex with no strings attached is a big turn on.
2007-11-02 16:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I think it depends on how old you are when you get married and how much experience you had. I'm 25 and got married at 21. I find it more enjoyable now than before. Before I kept worrying about pregnancy and STDs. Now, with those two worries out the way, and the roarin twenties on my side... I'm pretty happy with things the way they are. Now some other people wait until they're after their prime to get married and then neither can reach a consensus on when to do it. One is in the mood while the other is tired.
I personally think its better that both parties have done it before hand or neither have done it. Curiosity is too strong and if someone is saving it for marriage, finally marry after +30 years of virginity and then by happenstance their partner sucks at it...that will be a trouble-filled marriage. Lack of satisfaction is the #1 cause of infidelity.
2007-11-02 16:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Righteous Indignation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, the way something feels determines whether it is right or wrong? By that reasoning, should we let 5 year olds drink bourbon? It feels just as good to them as it does to 21 year olds.
I've had premarital and, er, marital sex. I didn't become a Christian until I was 26 ... so ... you're right that bodily they do feel the same. But it is awesome knowing that I don't have to feel *any* guilt when I have sex with my husband, plus I'm with someone who is likely to stay with me for the rest of my life, so that nurtures intimacy in a way that a more transient relationship can't.
2007-11-02 16:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by KL 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've only had post-marital sex with my wife. Sin always feels good. It does provide a momentary high, but just because something feels good doesn't mean it is right. Probably the reason the post-marital sex is not as good is because it can be ruined by pre-marital sex. Proverbs 9:17, Stolen water is sweet and bread eaten in secret is pleasant.
2007-11-02 16:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by mlcros 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Premarital sex isn't physically wrong, that is a moral issue. Anything forbidden, especially in that realm, has a higher sense of excitement about it, making it seem better.
I am a single father, two kids, 13 and 15. Walk into my home and ask, "What's the number one rule?" both will respond,
"Don't make a baby!!!!"
And - if you already know how good it feels, may be a little late to ask the question :)
My daughter says she isn't going to have sex until she is married. I tell her, "wonderful goal, but don't' forget the rule."
2007-11-02 16:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by The Oracle 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Post marital sex is just as good as premarital.
2007-11-02 16:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by bete noire Carpe Noctum 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I never noticed a difference between the two. I enjoyed both equally at the time. I'm single again now but don't plan on comparing to post-marital ever again.
2007-11-02 16:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by discombobulated 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it does seem that way yes if your only concentrating on the physical elements to sex.
i preferred sex within my marriage ...and ive experience both pre-m and post-m as well as committing adultery which "feels" just as good too...because a thing "feels good" doesnt make it right.
God bless
2007-11-02 16:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by Orita 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Premarital sex is important. You have to test drive a car before you buy it. Sex in marriage is important too. Car must stay maintained.
2007-11-02 16:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by Gaia 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
premarital sex is sex before you are married. sex before premarital sex would be pre-premarital sex. it probably feels better because there is excitement. once you're married, you know you're stuck to that person and probably routine sex.
2007-11-02 16:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by Lori 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋